League_Girl wrote:
Amity wrote:
I re read them, still doesnt make sense, have posts been edited?
Sly had been editing his posts because we both got into a political argument and he seems to have edited one of his posts where Alex said he wrote the "N" word. Sly only meant it as an analogy. I didn't see that post so I was lost at what Alex was saying. Then Pepe used the word lynch and Alex thought it was offensive so Pepe posted a lynch photo of a black person and Alex took great offense to that and locked it.
Then it spilled into his other thread "Who wants to be my friend, only say yes if you reply" in The Haven here.
The thread I showed you was unlocked by enviro. Posts may have been getting deleted too by Alex or enviro.
Amity I feel your frustration and disappointment. Seeing this unjust and insensitive, self-righteous, impetuous and yes, unfounded attack on Sly was nothing less than cruel. Sly, made an analogy which would have been clear to anyone fair and impartial, stating along the lines that calling him a racist would be as heinous and hurtful as he imagined a person of colour would feel if called the "n" word.
This statement in itself shows a great degree of empathy on Sly's part, identifying with the pain of someone who was actually called the dreadful "n" word. Illustrates that he is far from being racist.
You probably have caught up by now with all that has transpired, and it is already rather old news. I however am still in a state of shock at the ease with which someone with an inflated sense of self and total lack of accountability can publicly and without remorse, shame and crush a vulnerable member for all to see, who just happens to be at the wrong end of the political spectrum.
I myself am neither "left" nor "right" in my beliefs but rather "up." I have an unpopular and passe old fashioned belief in God, and striving for equality, love, compassion and justice for all, is my only moral compass.
Amity you are beautiful and very very kind and I learn much from you.
Don't be disillusioned, for there is always hope for a better tomorrow and many people here have defended the unjustly accused and shamed the shamer, as it should be. I will remain here for the time being and continue to enjoy the wonderful tenants whom I love dearly, despite having completely lost faith in the long-absent landlord.
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