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PeterHoping44
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08 Sep 2015, 4:42 pm

I forgot about that, but it doesn't really matter. I also can't edit the post. Bah!

Also, are they lying?



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08 Sep 2015, 5:48 pm

I was actually just calling the office today to see if my bank still sent any statements to there, as I was overdrawn. It was not an attempt to poke the bear again.



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08 Sep 2015, 6:05 pm

...If you get sentenced , Peter (I hope not !) , would you be taken into custody there and then or be given a few days?? an afternoon?? to " arrange your affairs " before reporting to the jug ???
If you do , I hope that you could get someone to post here , to let us know .



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08 Sep 2015, 6:08 pm

If future prospective employers ever google your name, they are going to find an enormous amount of personal and highly private information, including what you write on Wrong Planet. I was astonished at what a Google search of your name revealed, including what you had written about your sexual practices and sexual health, your
resentment and desire to sue websites you don't like anymore and so on. You seem to be dangerously unaware that Court appointed personnel can access all of this stuff, so can judges when considering what to do with you if you appear before them in the future.

You are creating a whip for your own back here and elsewhere. You have a history of being banned from websites though you don't seem to learn from that. You have been given realistic advice here (a lot) and you have ignored all of it. Personally, I think you have a personality disorder. Stop posting, stop blaming, develop some boundaries and get professional help, asap. Or it's back to jail and maybe not on remand next time but the real McCoy. And that won't be good. And your fellow inmates will respond to your endless litany of blaming others in ways you will not like at all. You can avoid that by getting help asap.



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08 Sep 2015, 6:09 pm

No. If you get sentenced to jail while in the courtroom, you do not get any preparation time. The officer right next to you in 'the dock' is there to cuff anybody who gets sentenced there and then, so you go to wait in the holding cells downstairs until a G4S van takes you to the jail.



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08 Sep 2015, 6:11 pm

Cmon, Peter, listen to what the lady says!

And to what ASS-P says, too.

Make a clean break, man.



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08 Sep 2015, 6:12 pm

B19 wrote:
If future prospective employers ever google your name, they are going to find an enormous amount of personal and highly private information, including what you write on Wrong Planet. I was astonished at what a Google search of your name revealed, including what you had written about your sexual practices and sexual health, your
resentment and desire to sue websites you don't like anymore and so on. You seem to be dangerously unaware that Court appointed personnel can access all of this stuff, so can judges when considering what to do with you if you appear before them in the future.

You are creating a whip for your own back here and elsewhere. You have a history of being banned from websites though you don't seem to learn from that. You have been given realistic advice here (a lot) and you have ignored all of it. Personally, I think you have a personality disorder. Stop posting, stop blaming, develop some boundaries and get professional help, asap. Or it's back to jail and maybe not on remand next time but the real McCoy. And that won't be good. And your fellow inmates will respond to your endless litany of blaming others in ways you will not like at all. You can avoid that by getting help asap.


I've tried, he won't even respond to my posts. I don't think he can take them in.



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08 Sep 2015, 6:19 pm

I was actually just responding to the question asked by ASS-P when you wrote back.

I'll answer your question if you answer mine first. Is this agency lying and mucking me about?

Provided you answer me truthfully, I'll listen to you respectfully. I really think they're all deceitful, being honest. That's a shame to admit to it, after all the years of building up a rapport with these people. :(



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08 Sep 2015, 6:31 pm

PeterHoping44 wrote:
I'll answer your question if you answer mine first. Is this agency lying and mucking me about?

No, I don't.

PeterHoping44 wrote:
I'm skeptical too about my ability not to bother Sara and Joanna again because the loss of their support still bugs me and I think it will always be like this. ... Maybe if they could just pass on a note of forgiveness, I'd feel happy knowing they don't hold a grudge any longer.
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I'm always going to be angry about it too. I've now been imprisoned 3 times because I felt they misunderstood me and I believed I could not live without their approval, which is a chronic mental disorder. Sure, it was just time on remand, but it still counts as being in prison and each time was longer than before. They've warned me that I can be jailed for up to a year if it happens again. I'm not sure if your current management can be trusted. They've never shown up to this point that they can be depended upon.

You're in a lot of trouble when they read the above. You've got to reach out for help, and not to this agency. I think there usefulness has expired.

So, have you ever had psychiatric counselling?



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08 Sep 2015, 6:33 pm

PeterHoping44 wrote:
I was actually just responding to the question asked by ASS-P when you wrote back.

I'll answer your question if you answer mine first. Is this agency lying and mucking me about?

Provided you answer me truthfully, I'll listen to you respectfully. I really think they're all deceitful, being honest. That's a shame to admit to it, after all the years of building up a rapport with these people. :(


Have you considered the idea that the people you have a history of harassing have blocked your email address so they don't receive anything you send them? That is a common reaction to being harassed, blocking all avenues of ingress. You really can't accept that these people want nothing to do with you and they have every right to refuse to talk to you if they don't want to since you have a history of harassing them, can you?



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08 Sep 2015, 6:35 pm

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08 Sep 2015, 6:47 pm

OK. At this point, it is no longer about whether or not they lied to or dismissed you, PeterHoping44.

Your irrational and excessive reactions gave them the legal capabilities to screw you without Vaseline. The only thing you have managed to do with your obsessive frustration is paint a brighter neon target sign on your read end.

So, forget about the support workers. Try to save yourself instead.



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08 Sep 2015, 6:59 pm

These other staff members I'm talking about work in a place called Number 6 and I am still permitted to be in there, so why the Diddly Sam heck are they saying they did not know I was in jail? That ain't very believable, giving all of the information on this already spread around, and my habit of copying all of them into my emails anyway. :(

True. Maybe they are filtered out. And, I thought it was highly disrespectful of the seniors not to even pass the freaking letters on to the outreach personnel I wrote to from jail.

As for what you guys are like. I think you lot would actually make better support workers. My pal 'K' on another autism forum reckons autistic people need the support and care from other autistic parties and not neurotypical workers, which might seem on par with discrimination, but I think what she meant was, they do not fully understand our pain, needs, etc and everything comes down to protocol and I know that when they stitch you up and the dust settles, they do not care. I'm the guy with the problem who required their help, not to have been jailed three times and lied to. They probably feel like because the court favours them and is aware of my unhealthy methods of gaining a recourse, they needn't bother any longer. Their attitude on the phone for example is just smarmy and it's a 'could not care less' approach.

In other words, they will care if it means a pay check. Otherwise, it's all artificial and false sounding. You do realize that they are paid to be nice, and if you were outside the bubble there, they'd not look you over twice. That's a bit hard to swallow but I'm a slow learner and I'm learning all too late that they severed me and won't care that I'll go to jail or feel hurt. :|



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08 Sep 2015, 7:01 pm

...I tried to send you a PM , Peter , but I guess you do not receive them ?



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08 Sep 2015, 7:04 pm

Sorry. Generally, not. My e-mail address is peterchoceater[atREMOVEandreplace]outlook.com if you need to email me! :)



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08 Sep 2015, 7:12 pm

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In other words, they will care if it means a pay check. Otherwise, it's all artificial and false sounding. You do realize that they are paid to be nice, and if you were outside the bubble there, they'd not look you over twice. That's a bit hard to swallow but I'm a slow learner and I'm learning all too late that they severed me and won't care that I'll go to jail or feel hurt. :|

It is a hard pill to swallow, but a true one. It's like the cashiers or salespeople in stores. They don't give a rat's ass about the customers. They are paid to be friendly. Support workers are paid to provide services. Of which friendship is not one.