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25 Jan 2016, 11:57 pm

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They do but it still cost 1.90 a day or $25 a month.

I have two online friends I talk to regularly but that doesn't satisfy the need to actually be with someone doing stuff.

I'm negative because I've been around awhile and tried s lot of the things people suggest.none of it helped. I didn't go from happy to given up in a minute. It happen over 15 years.


That sounds like depression to me. Have you ever sought treatment for it from a professional? There is help out there, you don't have to suffer needlessly. If someone could offer you a way out of that rut of negativity, would you take it?


It's not depression it's called rp the reality of being a worthless poor person. Life sucks for anyone below middle class.

Not unless it was giving me lots of money or introducing me to s girl.


What if there's more to it? What if depression was actually creating a major obstacle to finding and going out with that girl?



But I'm not depressed. Life just sucks and no amount of trying can change it. Your either born lucky or not. I wasn't, everything in my life has been one failure after another.

I now work part time minimum wage and that's never going change. I can't handle working more.



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26 Jan 2016, 12:30 am

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They do but it still cost 1.90 a day or $25 a month.

I have two online friends I talk to regularly but that doesn't satisfy the need to actually be with someone doing stuff.

I'm negative because I've been around awhile and tried s lot of the things people suggest.none of it helped. I didn't go from happy to given up in a minute. It happen over 15 years.


That sounds like depression to me. Have you ever sought treatment for it from a professional? There is help out there, you don't have to suffer needlessly. If someone could offer you a way out of that rut of negativity, would you take it?


It's not depression it's called rp the reality of being a worthless poor person. Life sucks for anyone below middle class.

Not unless it was giving me lots of money or introducing me to s girl.


What if there's more to it? What if depression was actually creating a major obstacle to finding and going out with that girl?



But I'm not depressed. Life just sucks and no amount of trying can change it. Your either born lucky or not. I wasn't, everything in my life has been one failure after another.

I now work part time minimum wage and that's never going change. I can't handle working more.


I've been chronically depressed before and I've known lots of people that struggled with depression. The way you describe yourself and your life really sounds like someone who is depressed. Have you ever been evaluated for depression by a psychiatrist/psychologist? If depression is negatively impacting your life, that means that it's possible to get treatment so that you could feel better about yourself and your life--wouldn't you like the chance to feel better?



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26 Jan 2016, 1:06 am

I'd rather die then give up my gun rights.

Maybe people could just be more accepting and treat others like human beings instead of cash cows.

:(



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26 Jan 2016, 1:26 am

What does that have to do with gun rights?


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26 Jan 2016, 1:29 am

Many of the issues and anxietys that Sly is facing are for me, in my perspective, unreasonable.

Why do you think that your rights are at stake? Do you think that you are the only one with such an outlook?


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26 Jan 2016, 1:32 am

Depression and antidepressants are a instant gun ban as you're deemed a risk to yourself.
All the mass shooters were on antidepressants.
My mom was made super depressed after she started taking antidepressants so the doctors need the use.
antidepressants are mind alter drugs and there's no know how their alter ones mind. I don't take drugs.



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26 Jan 2016, 1:35 am

Deltaville wrote:
Many of the issues and anxietys that Sly is facing are for me, in my perspective, unreasonable.

Why do you think that your rights are at stake? Do you think that you are the only one with such an outlook?

Because Obama came out and said they are. Because anti gunners keep attacking gun rights everyday. I can't go a day without seeing gun control in the news.

I'm currently waiting for Obama via ssa to label all aspies as a threat to others and take our guns. Just waiting for them to submit the proposal he has them working on behind closed doors as we speak as part of his tantrum and bypassing congress he announced in the beginning of January.

Unreasonable to face or unreasonable as in making up?



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26 Jan 2016, 1:40 am

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I'd rather die then give up my gun rights.

Maybe people could just be more accepting and treat others like human beings instead of cash cows.

:(



Do you not think that your personal dignity and significance are of far greater magnitude than this? Maybe the reason why you are so depressed is this artificial belittlement of yourself?


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26 Jan 2016, 2:18 am

Deltaville wrote:
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I'd rather die then give up my gun rights.

Maybe people could just be more accepting and treat others like human beings instead of cash cows.

:(



Do you not think that your personal dignity and significance are of far greater magnitude than this? Maybe the reason why you are so depressed is this artificial belittlement of yourself?

Only repeat things others have said and seen said. You should here how people talk about aspies and welfare people.

And then how women talk about men they deem worthless due to not making enough money, driving the right vehicle or not being a country boy.

They want REAL men as they call it.



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26 Jan 2016, 2:22 am

sly279 wrote:
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I'd rather die then give up my gun rights.

Maybe people could just be more accepting and treat others like human beings instead of cash cows.

:(



Do you not think that your personal dignity and significance are of far greater magnitude than this? Maybe the reason why you are so depressed is this artificial belittlement of yourself?

Only repeat things others have said and seen said.


What do you mean?


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26 Jan 2016, 3:04 am

Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Deltaville wrote:
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I'd rather die then give up my gun rights.

Maybe people could just be more accepting and treat others like human beings instead of cash cows.

:(



Do you not think that your personal dignity and significance are of far greater magnitude than this? Maybe the reason why you are so depressed is this artificial belittlement of yourself?

Only repeat things others have said and seen said.


What do you mean?


The things I say apbad about myself are things I've heard and seen thousand and thousands of people say about me.



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26 Jan 2016, 12:08 pm

sly279 wrote:
Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
I'd rather die then give up my gun rights.

Maybe people could just be more accepting and treat others like human beings instead of cash cows.

:(



Do you not think that your personal dignity and significance are of far greater magnitude than this? Maybe the reason why you are so depressed is this artificial belittlement of yourself?

Only repeat things others have said and seen said.


What do you mean?


The things I say apbad about myself are things I've heard and seen thousand and thousands of people say about me.


Well I disagree with those people, and I even disagree with you. You likely are not aware of the value and importance you have to the people around you.

Everyone on this forum has your best interests in mind.


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26 Jan 2016, 1:40 pm

Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
I'd rather die then give up my gun rights.

Maybe people could just be more accepting and treat others like human beings instead of cash cows.

:(



Do you not think that your personal dignity and significance are of far greater magnitude than this? Maybe the reason why you are so depressed is this artificial belittlement of yourself?

Only repeat things others have said and seen said.


What do you mean?


The things I say apbad about myself are things I've heard and seen thousand and thousands of people say about me.


Well I disagree with those people, and I even disagree with you. You likely are not aware of the value and importance you have to the people around you.

Everyone on this forum has your best interests in mind.


I do. I think you're worth way more than you think you are. And from how you describe yourself, i thought you looked like gollum. But i saw your picture and you're cute..not cute like a puppy, cute like attractive. And traits you describe like not being into hunting and football are very good things in my book. In many ways, since you're tall, you are like the big soft hearted guy that was posted about as the ideal for many women.

It seems to me that so much of what's going on is compounded by being in an small town environment that you don't feel you fit in to..but also that for finding and getting along with the outliers, the negative gets in the way.

As for automatic gun removal if you're on antidepressants, that's not true at all. It can be if you are deemed a risk to yourself - even if you don't take Any meds - that though means you're in a hospital on suicide watch with no shoelaces. But a huge percent of the country is on ssris. A broad ssri disqualifiqation would Never go through.

To me, the motto of depression is 'life sucks' (and i've been deeply depressed more times than i'd like to count). For me, when i'm no longer depressed, some of those bleak things no longer are. I see them differently..life isn't roses, but Everything isn't hopeless and dreary. i also know that for me, when things are that down..everything is black and white bleak and negative, if there were a chance something minor like an ssri or even 5htp could help, it'd be worth trying.


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26 Jan 2016, 2:07 pm

100000fireflies wrote:
Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
I'd rather die then give up my gun rights.

Maybe people could just be more accepting and treat others like human beings instead of cash cows.

:(



Do you not think that your personal dignity and significance are of far greater magnitude than this? Maybe the reason why you are so depressed is this artificial belittlement of yourself?

Only repeat things others have said and seen said.


What do you mean?


The things I say apbad about myself are things I've heard and seen thousand and thousands of people say about me.


Well I disagree with those people, and I even disagree with you. You likely are not aware of the value and importance you have to the people around you.

Everyone on this forum has your best interests in mind.


I do. I think you're worth way more than you think you are. And from how you describe yourself, i thought you looked like gollum. But i saw your picture and you're cute..not cute like a puppy, cute like attractive. And traits you describe like not being into hunting and football are very good things in my book. In many ways, since you're tall, you are like the big soft hearted guy that was posted about as the ideal for many women.

It seems to me that so much of what's going on is compounded by being in an small town environment that you don't feel you fit in to..but also that for finding and getting along with the outliers, the negative gets in the way.

As for automatic gun removal if you're on antidepressants, that's not true at all. It can be if you are deemed a risk to yourself - even if you don't take Any meds - that though means you're in a hospital on suicide watch with no shoelaces. But a huge percent of the country is on ssris. A broad ssri disqualifiqation would Never go through.

To me, the motto of depression is 'life sucks' (and i've been deeply depressed more times than i'd like to count). For me, when i'm no longer depressed, some of those bleak things no longer are. I see them differently..life isn't roses, but Everything isn't hopeless and dreary. i also know that for me, when things are that down..everything is black and white bleak and negative, if there were a chance something minor like an ssri or even 5htp could help, it'd be worth trying.


Most depressed people talk about wanting to die. Doctors take that as they going to kill themselves. The current leader is going to take guns from anyone with a mental issue. Aspies, ASD, depression, bipolar etc.
this one guy lose his guns because he said he'd rather die then live with a tubes going into his body. So because he refused treatment and said that, two officers were dispatched to the hospital and others to his home to take his guns. Years later and he still can't have guns. I live in a liberal state where they look for any reason to ban someone's guns. They'll looking at s law where anyone can go online and anonymously report anyone's name and have their guns taken away no questions asked, then said person has 30 days to try to get their guns back.

I assume I ugly because besides family and friends everyone always tells me I'm unattractive or outright say I'm ugly. :(

Yes many female friends say I'd be the perfect boyfriend due to my compassion, kindness, eager to please sexual, Etc, but none of them would date me either. If I said that about s female friend I'd be all over trying to date her.
Other female friends have said I'm worthless trash though, because I don't make enough to take 5 trips to Europe or Hawaii a year, or take a girl out to dinner 4-5 times a week at fancy resteraunts.

I started actively trying to date at 22. I went in thinking I was good that some lady would love to be with me. 5 years of being called worthless or ugly put and end to that. I still sometimes wonder why, but if if the majority say something it's true. Majority said Pluto isn't a planet so now it's not s planet. So I must be ugly and worthless and revisiting that will only cause me harm, no?

Also despite my hard work, I'm not the best at spelling and grammar and it seems so many women see that as a deal breaker. Every woman I look at has some reason for not dating me listed on their profile.



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26 Jan 2016, 2:33 pm

Do you not think that me, along with the rest of the WP community (misskong notwithstanding) have treated you with dignity and respect?


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26 Jan 2016, 3:00 pm

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Do you not think that me, along with the rest of the WP community (misskong notwithstanding) have treated you with dignity and respect?

Anti gun people aside , yes most have. What's that have to do with it?