Seems the hating on lonely single men is coming back

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I don't live under a Sharia law.

The people of the place where I live looks like this http://beiruting.com/Content/Uploads/Ev ... 701673.jpg

Literally.


But I am not convinced that anywhere in the world that it's ok to go around and say hellos to stranger women.




Personally I am seeing no male doing it...... except soem few Syrian refugees whom a lot of women complain about, and it's a rare occurence even still.





In which venues exactly that? Like any girl they see walking down the street? Sorry...but that's something only harassers do.

And INSOCNAIV is more likely to end up INCEL...and therefore more likely to end up as INCEL TERRORIST.

The future-predicting police should arrest you.

If Precrime existed the world would be one big prison

They're here.....RUuuuuuuuun

WTAF , I was just googling to see if anyone had an INCEL tattoo and some idiot has tattooed his knob

Don't Click Here If You Don't Want To See A Dick Pic

But seriously, the only few men I personally know who claim to have asked women out in public are usually....older men, like in the age of krafie (but they're married now so they never tried it in our days).

My former supervisor in my former job used to boast how in his youth asked out women successfully in the street - he even claimed that he sometimes stopped the car and got out of it just to speak to a hot woman he noticed - and claimed this worked sometimes for him.

Meh....whatever, even if I am gonna buy his stories, i am pretty sure that it has zero chance today to work - i know no self-respecting men of my age range/ generation who ever did so, not even older men. If his was really a thing in the past then it's just in the past.

Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 08 May 2018, 7:13 am, edited 4 times in total.

I don't like being serious but I am in a relationship so when I talk to strange women there is no pretense , If I had to play the dating game again ( which I wouldn't ) I would fall flat on my face.

If a woman has her headphones on, don’t talk to her.

I’ve only asked out a couple of women on a date in public out of the blue. Once, a girl asked me out on the train...but she was a Jesus Freak.

A few times, I spoke to women, and they agreed to come to my apartment. But we didn’t go out on a date. I was rejected every time I asked a woman out on a date on the train.

I haven’t done any of this since the 1980s. The lady in the airport recently knew I married. She had no hotel room or car. I tried to help her get a hotel room separate from mine. No possibility of hanky-panky.

I strike up conversations with people of all genders on the train all the time.

In airplanes, I did strike conversations with the next sitting person sometimes - sometimes they initiate the talk, it happens naturally - i recall i conversed with a young lady (lebanese) all along the way, even told me her name, what she works ...etc; but that was it, I didn't attempt to chase her after landing- The airplane setting is different though, it's safe , cosy, a lot of people around and there are stewardesses watching everything all the time, it's not like the buses and streets.

There’s this Palestinian woman at work. She wears a scarf. She is a religious Muslim. She won’t marry outside her faith.

Still, she has invited me out for dinner. She has friends of many faiths, races, ethnicities. She just trusts that people, in general, have decent morals.

There are women of that ilk who would talk to people on trains. The honor system is always in force with them.

Re-read this quoted string. It doesn't even mention a guy asking a girl out. It mentions a guy speaking with a woman he doesn't know in public. Guys asking strange women out as their first communication with them isn't all that common, but it does still happen every once in a while. But as I posted, guys talking with girls in public, striking up a conversation, that's VERY common. And then some of them may ask for a phone number/date if they're interested in that girl before parting ways. That's not that common, and IMO, it's not that common not because it's rude but because people seem to be more socially anxious in general and they don't know how to ask for phone numbers/dates like they used to because so much as shifted online or to apps etc. But people still do this exact process the old fashioned way.. strike up a conversation, share some idle chit chat, request a phone number/facebook contact etc and maybe talk to/see each other later. This isn't some bizarre custom that once occurred 100 years ago and no longer does. It happens more between socially adept people than inept, though.

Street, park, beach, bus bench, bus, train, grocery store, shopping mall, bar whatever.. public places where you're not being rude by interrupting someone's existing conversation or phone call or whatever. It's very common. People speak to one another all the time. Just don't be a creep about it and it's generally a-okay.

And if a guy were to politely say hello to a woman, and she heard him, and looked away/avoided eye contact and didn't respond politely or at all, she would be considered rude by him for not returning communication and he would be wondering "What's wrong with her?" because grown adults don't hide or run away and shout "stranger danger!" like 6 year old children. They greet one another, talk about whatever's going on in the city, the weather, restaurant recommendations, whatever.. because they're grown adults and know how to have a civil conversation with one another.

I bet it would work BETTER today because fewer people do it, so a guy would really stand out as confident.

Of course that means being a gentleman about it and not coming across as a creepy weirdo rapist.

There ya go, kraftie knows exactly what I'm talking about. People talk to other people all the time.

You’re so stubborn honestly and you’re giving a very bad advice to guys here.

There’s no way in hell one wouldn’t come across as a creep weirdo if he asks a girl he just saw in the street. No matter how gentlemanly he talks.

Most relationships start via friendship and socializations but I know no relationship started in the street; at least for the heterosexual ones.

Get back to reality and stop giving out advice that would be acceptable only in La La lands.

Seriously, stop it.

I'm with Boo on this one. Being chatted up by guys on the street is creepy. It will very easily make women uncomfortable and nervous about not getting away from him.
Just don't.