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23 May 2023, 10:45 pm

How very sad that there still exist snowflakes who cannot deal with losing a rational and fact-based argument, and who then proceed to personally attack and lie about the people who delivered those very same rational and fact-based arguments, instead of simply admitting defeat or just going away.

But no . . . they have to stick around and make themselves look even more foolish by spreading their lies, even though anyone else with a rational mind can clearly see that their lies are based on their own fragile egos reacting to being on the losing side of every argument they have participated in.

Sad, very sad.


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24 May 2023, 6:39 am

FF I'm all out good ideas too. I don't know what to suggest apart from repeating myself.

Are you just venting, getting it out of your system by posting or do you want something else from posters.
What can we do to help you dude, it's frustrating watching someone self-destruct and not being able to help :(


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24 May 2023, 9:18 am

I know exactly what you mean Fnord.


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24 May 2023, 9:19 am

I know exactly what you mean Fnord.


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24 May 2023, 10:14 am

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FF I'm all out good ideas too. I don't know what to suggest apart from repeating myself.

Are you just venting, getting it out of your system by posting or do you want something else from posters.
What can we do to help you dude, it's frustrating watching someone self-destruct and not being able to help :(

I'm mostly just venting/getting it out of my system a lot of the time. I don't really expect anyone to like offer advice or anything, especially since everyone's already given me all the advice they can.



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24 May 2023, 3:43 pm

“Only confide in me and your therapist,” he said.

“Other people wouldn’t understand,” he said. :roll:


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25 May 2023, 3:44 am

Why did my comment post twice? 8O


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25 May 2023, 3:49 am

What annoys me is my comments being policed. When I write a comment or post, some people reply to say that I shouldn't have written that because of XYZ reasons, whatever. They say I should have written something completely different.

I am not here to write what other people want me to write. I'm here to write what III want to write. I am allowed to comment and post exactly what I like, as long as I'm not insulting or hurting other people, which I'm not. This is called free speech, people! Especially on a public forum like WP.


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25 May 2023, 4:15 am

Fairfield wrote:
I'm mostly just venting/getting it out of my system a lot of the time. I don't really expect anyone to like offer advice or anything, especially since everyone's already given me all the advice they can.


Well I hope it helps dude. :)


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25 May 2023, 1:37 pm

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I cut myself deeper than I usually do because I usually use drugs to deal with my anger, but I have no weed or alcohol or way to get any right now, so that's the only coping mechanism I have at the moment. It didnt even f*****g work so now I'm more angry and want to cut more + bang my head against a wall.


I wish you could find a better way Fairfield I really do. I'd hate to see you damage yourself irreparably.


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25 May 2023, 1:58 pm

I'm sick of the noise of motorcycles.


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27 May 2023, 11:24 am

I got yelled at for getting a snack after waiting for 3 hours to be able to eat something and take my meds. I'm already so f*****g done so I guess I just won't f*****g eat anything for 3 days and I'll just sleep until I can go home because this isn't the first time I've been yelled at and I'm not dealing with it.



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31 May 2023, 1:34 am

everrrrrrrrrrrrrrytime, you get something done the trangulation comes in droves to destruct
not only everything outside was put in annoying overdrive, change the planning the umpteenth time,
the emergency, what's thought up one second ago is ALWAYS more important than the planning
-- and now this urgent need to have the masses upon my roof, can it get any more intrusive?
triangulation by hordes, 8)
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31 May 2023, 2:49 am

So tired and nauseaus sometimes wish i could collapse so people can see how tired i am



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31 May 2023, 6:33 am

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So tired and nauseaus sometimes wish i could collapse so people can see how tired i am


Yes, people don't seem to notice other people anymore do they. At all. They're too busy on their phones.


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31 May 2023, 8:54 am

I wish I do not need to breathe.

I'm not suicidal.


I just had enough with this damn chronically blocked nose.
This air hungry feeling, the distractibility it causes, that having to mind it to begin with, the physiological responses, those raw feeling whenever I tried to cope with it...

For most of my life, breathing is...

Either a luxury comfort or a fricking annoyance that I happened to literally cannot live without.
And no one takes it seriously.

I wish I do not have to nor need to breathe.


Socializing manually is one thing...
Breathing manually is another.

Former is complex set of behaviors that aren't really meant to be done consciously.

The latter, supposedly, requires no damn thought.
I do not have long covid, I do not have asthma or lung issues, I do not have anything life threatening.

I do not smoke, I'm not exposed to anything unhealthy.

Yet somehow, it ruined my life.

If I lost whatever lung capacity I have, it's a not-a-surprise.
If I lost it, it'll just be extra discomfortable, extra distracting.
If I lost it, I'll just kill myself because there's no sense of trying a chance of being a bit more comfortable.

I already struggle with something so fricking simple. And I just had to put up with it for most of my waking life because no one takes it seriously.

I wish there's a technology where I don't need to breathe to survive.
I wish I don't need 'air' to live.

It's a fricking nuisance. It's almost always discomfortable. Not painful, not threatening.

It triggers me more than any noise in my intolerant years, more than any unpleasant surprises that -- I just wish I do not care anymore.

No one cares about the impact over quality of life due to this.


I wish I do not need to breathe.
Unlike the pandemic, I've been doing this for years worth of my life.
DECADES.

Whenever it's worse, I couldn't cope with it well.
Wishing that it could just pass and never happen again.
But it keeps happening. It never leaves me alone.

To anyone, it's a week at most.
Just rest, take some meds, drink plenty of water -- then it'll be over! :roll:

To me?? It doesn't fricking end.
If it does, it'll always return. Not years, not months -- not even weeks. Meds won't work either.

And since the pandemic?
I'd get blamed. I won't be surprised if I get kicked out or banned somewhere because I cannot manage this sh*t.


Oh, there are a LOT of things I hadn't tried.
Except time and energy mostly all goes to coping dealing with this nuisance.


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