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17 Sep 2007, 11:41 am

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And Yes, sexual impulse is different, and it can be controlled. (e.g. look at monks, they can refrain from such action, can't they?)


Not entirely. For one thing, many people violate their vows of chastity. Probably almost all monks w*k once in a while. And, even those that don't, more often than not are visited by occasional erotic dreams, complete with nocturnal emissions.

Someone who has never smoked is not going to feel the same urges towards smoking as he or she would feel towards sex.



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18 Sep 2007, 8:36 pm

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do not badger me, patronize me, or talk sh** to me.

No Worries, none of us will do that.

I, myself (probably because I am AS), would never go out with a person who thrives on chit chat or silly social riff raff... You should find a person who loves you for who you are. There are people out there who love uncondiationally, we just need the time and the patience to seek for them.

NB: I have gone accustomed to not having any "friend", although, at times I did try... Perhaps, by being AS, I wasn't sucessful... But, personally, I don't mind having no one in my life (I sometimes, belive it or not, priase solitude).

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The key is to understand that happiness does not come from other people. It has to come from you.

I agree... snake123. You may want to try this, try being happy and love your self, then others will start loving (and respect) you.

:arrow: sometimes solutions to problems are found in the most awkward of places (e.g. Opera Winfery Show for instance).

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1... some people choose not to have sex ...
2... why not just masturbate ...

1. like monks...
2. I don't have an opinion on this... (but some say it is a sin??)

NB: In my opinion, animals reproduce as a need to safeguard their species. They are in no way so lustful, or are in desperate need to search for a partner (lust is a sin).

By the way, suicide adds problems (to the living community, as friends or loved ones), by merely not solving any problems... If loved ones can't help, there may be other ways to seek help. I think that the "happiness" must come from within... And one day the "crippled" one may just stand up and walk... owing the respect is s/he undergoes such a task (esp. if s/he willingly decides to just stand and walk, or no matter what reach goals)

:arrow: usually in forums, two or three posts following each other are not recommended. An "editing" button exists in the top right corner (near the "arrow" button), and should be used to edit/ correct messages (i.e. adding on, or deleting some of the contents).


Like I said, some women choose not to eat. Does this mean food isn't a need because some women choose to be anorexic?


Snake, you are a stupid f**k. Nobody "chooses" to be Anorexic. It is a serious illness, a compulsion (not a choice) to starve oneself that leads to physical sickness and death. Can the same be said of not having some female love slave to give you all you want?

This will be my last post on wrong planet... You make me want to vomit.

Your comparing what you are going through to Anorexia is like comparing a mere cough to Cancer.

I hereby revoke all of the kind words I wrote a number of weeks ago.

The reason you have no luck with women is that you are nothing but a misogynistic child.

You don't deserve to be helped.



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19 Sep 2007, 8:32 pm

Aridarr wrote:
Snake, you are a stupid f**k. Nobody "chooses" to be Anorexic. It is a serious illness, a compulsion (not a choice) to starve oneself that leads to physical sickness and death. Can the same be said of not having some female love slave to give you all you want?

This will be my last post on wrong planet... You make me want to vomit.

Your comparing what you are going through to Anorexia is like comparing a mere cough to Cancer.

I hereby revoke all of the kind words I wrote a number of weeks ago.

The reason you have no luck with women is that you are nothing but a misogynistic child.


Yes, he is a misogynistic child. How do you think he got that way, Aridarr?

I feel for this guy. I share his pain.

He's a guy who's just had his heart ripped to pieces too many times, by too many women. I'm sure he wasn't always a misogynistic child, he didn't always hate women, but look what they did to him?

Can you really blame Snake for the way these cruel women treated him?

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You don't deserve to be helped.


He sure does deserve to be helped!
He needs help finding women who won't hurt and mistreat him.
He needs to learn a woman's perspective on life and relationships.
He needs to learn what they go through.
Last, but not least, he needs a big hug!

Saying "you don't deserve to be helped," is just going to make him hate women more.



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23 Sep 2007, 3:37 pm

Aridarr wrote:
Snake, you are a stupid f**k. Nobody "chooses" to be Anorexic. It is a serious illness, a compulsion (not a choice) to starve oneself that leads to physical sickness and death. Can the same be said of not having some female love slave to give you all you want?

This will be my last post on wrong planet... You make me want to vomit.

Your comparing what you are going through to Anorexia is like comparing a mere cough to Cancer.

I hereby revoke all of the kind words I wrote a number of weeks ago.

The reason you have no luck with women is that you are nothing but a misogynistic child.

You don't deserve to be helped.

:? I once praised you for being quixotic, a trait that I normally consider to be romantically noble, if also a bit delusional. At the time, I did not realize to what an unhealthy extreme you tend to take the notion. It is one thing to joust windmills; it is quite another to throw a hissy fit every time you can't kill one of them.

You'd do well to spend some summer working as a lifeguard. In this vocation, they will teach you to be careful that the person you are trying to save doesn't end up dragging you under with him/her; if that happens, irony doubles the loss, for one person attempting to save another ends up with two being lost. I just saw it happen here, just a moment ago; you've taken the noble inclination of wanting to help people, and let it drag you down and break your own spirit.

The world is full of people you will never be able to save. You're not so naive as to not realize that, are you? Run away from here; you'll still be in the same world of lost souls. Hide yourself away; the lost souls will still be out there.

Such a waste.

Goodbye.

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24 Sep 2007, 6:50 am

Hey bro Ive been away for a while Ill get back to you on yahoo later.



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28 Sep 2007, 1:22 am

Ive been alone for most of my life an only ever had one girlfreind i cant think of anybody that as had such empty life as me if it wasn't for finding my girlfriend i would have been dead years ago.



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23 Oct 2007, 11:57 am

Here is an article on handicapped people using prostitutes.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/7057929.stm



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23 Oct 2007, 7:05 pm

I don't understand where all this talk of suicide is coming from, just for not having a girlfriend.
I feel no attraction for girls over 12 and I've never had a girlfriend, nor ever will, and I will die a virgin, but I never talk about killing myself. That is not the Viking thing to do, Vikings never give up.
I guess some people can't stand being alone, and others are just damn used to it.
I also don't understand what sets this guy apart from all the other guys on here who can't get a girlfriend.
I once heard that the saying "its better to have loved and loss, blah blah blah" is false, you are better off like me if you don't know what you are missing. I can't feel love, I don't know what sex is like, and I never will, but you don't hear me talking about offing myself!



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24 Oct 2007, 12:45 pm

Yog-Sothoth wrote:
I don't understand where all this talk of suicide is coming from, just for not having a girlfriend.
I feel no attraction for girls over 12 and I've never had a girlfriend, nor ever will, and I will die a virgin, but I never talk about killing myself. That is not the Viking thing to do, Vikings never give up.
I guess some people can't stand being alone, and others are just damn used to it.
I also don't understand what sets this guy apart from all the other guys on here who can't get a girlfriend.
I once heard that the saying "its better to have loved and loss, blah blah blah" is false, you are better off like me if you don't know what you are missing. I can't feel love, I don't know what sex is like, and I never will, but you don't hear me talking about offing myself!


He may have other things on his plate besides lack of a gf.



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24 Oct 2007, 5:28 pm

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He may have other things on his plate besides lack of a gf.

So do I, a lot more, but I'm still not gonna blow my head off.
Maybe I am just more Viking then everybody else.



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01 May 2015, 1:37 pm

Getting back to this post, when one feels anger he can sometimes feel "dangerously alone"
My thoughs now being often angry and PO'ed with the world and all those NT 'scums' out there... (will refer to them as such for the sak of this post)...

Friends & family who really care (about "you", "me" or all those angry and alone) should be wise to chose the right words and tactics/tricks to get you out of that hellhole and not allow that to suck you in thru a back-hole with point of no return.

Doing self harm and other things to release anger will only make "you", "me" or one feel angrier or more alone thn ever... If you're still there, it is good to think it over...