obtaining a phone number is useless

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22 Jun 2009, 7:51 pm

So I've got a classmate's number, and it seemed like she was interested. She used to look at me in class and was opened up for conversation.During the weekend, I decided to text her. We exchganged a couple of messages. During that, I sent her a message waiting for a reply. She never text me back.

The problem with Aspies is not we are shy. It's just people don't like us.



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22 Jun 2009, 7:59 pm

it's that the people we like often don't like us back.

but that is not an Aspie thing, that is a human thing. Wait until some girl fall in love with you and you can't abide the sight of her. Don't laugh, it happens and it is not pretty.

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22 Jun 2009, 8:29 pm

I think it is a lack of understanding the social rules and probably not talking about the "right" stuff. I think there are many things that aspies notice and are interested in that non aspies don't notice and really don't care about.



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22 Jun 2009, 8:57 pm

My problem there is, I'm to chicken to pick up a phone. I agree, having someone like you that you don't like (not fun & creepy)! Though in my case, the guy's an aspie (one of only 2 aspies to cause me grief/have met a fair few), not attractive & threw out marriage proposals to all my friends & me (girls)/ not fun to deal with!


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