KenM wrote:
ZEGH8578 wrote:
to be 20 and wanna kill yourself over still being a virgin, or simply for being aspie, or for not having friends, that does NOT "qualify", in "my book"....
Having AS means we interact differently, don't get all the cues, ect. But we still have the emotional needs to be with people. But we don't know the way to do it. This prevents you from meeting that emotional need, and you have tryed everything and don't know whta else to do, notthing you have tryed has helped, then it does qualify. You are in pain.
no it doesnt, cus theres more to life than getting to bang a chick or even "experiencing love" and all that.
ive never had love either, so what.
not getting laid and not being able to use your own brain cus of a car accident are two completely different things.
the social problems are western luxury problems. not enough friends, no social life, never to parties, come on. people are starving to death, and they fight to stay allive.
yes aspies think differently
that doesnt grant us the duty to be complete wusses about it.
i see that a lot too "my mother wants to invite me to a birthday party, but i wont go cus im aspie. shes such a cruel b***h. i hate my life."
NT's: manage social life better. are confronted w tons of stuff they dont like.
Aspies: cannot manage social life. are confronted w tons of stuff they dont like, and decide to exclude themselves from reality, for being aspie. "this doesnt concern me, im aspie". i wonder what aspies will do in war? inform every single soldier to exclude them from the action, cus theyre aspie? "no this doesnt count for me im aspie. hey im starving, this isnt fair, feed me im aspie."
yes life is uncomfortable. deal with it.
suicide is for those who cant even open their eyes without some form of aid.
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