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31 Jul 2009, 10:14 am

Sorry but Im very sad and just need to spit it out somewhere...

Im far away from home and looking after a house on the countryside while the owners is on holiday and my friend have been with me some days.

Her parents was due to arrive at any time to pick her up. I told my friend that I needed to have a "secured not arriving before time" so I can feel safe that I have certain time to prepare myself before they arrived. This message didnt reach neither her or her parents properly

Because they arrive 15 mins to early before they said they earliest would arrive AND they step into the house without ringing the doorbell.
This freaked me out to the very extreme as I was in the shower, without my clothes at hand AND as they didnt ring the door I didnt have the chance to tell my friend to distract them so I could get dressed and also hide something I needed to do before they arrived.

They just walked around the house as their own and it made me crazy and extremely upset as while Im here I concider the place as "my area" as I have the responsibility.
They are countryside people and I believe they do like this on countryside. Come when they come and just step in....

Im from the big city and are not used to this kind of visiting spontanity. I went VERY MAD and pointed out that they apparently didnt get my message and that they could have called to tell they was coming on earlier or anything.... At the same time I manage to get myself dressed and also hide the thing I needed to hide but the damage was aready done

When I was about to approach her mother to say sorry for this SHE FREAKED OUT - my friends mother for christ sake. She went mad and screamed around and told my friend GET YOUR THINGS WE ARE LEAVING NOW!! ! When I tried to say something she screamed back she just said my behaviour was absolutely unacceptable which is true and I agree

BUT I never got the chance to make it all good AND explain myself because her mother was furious and grabbed her family to leave without either saying goodbye or eating the dinner my friend had prepared....

I cried out loud for an hour after all this s**t. I knew that we offended each other and I did wrong and regret it as hell. But it hurts me in massive that her mother escaped the situation in such a way not allowing me to correct my mistake. Her mother DO know I have AS - in fact her daughter have it too but why the F?! couldnt I explain myself!! :evil:


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31 Jul 2009, 11:29 am

STEREOTYpical countryside people, they annoy the s*** of me, speak horrible, stink, and i don't find them so friendly they claim to be. One time i travelled with some of them, i hated to travel from place to place..........

The worst thing was that they showed no such thing as support towards me while i ate pain 15-18 daily for 6 days while we drove, sat in rain, and the worst thing was that they thought i was an idiot who didn't like damn wordplay stuff, singing horrible contry songs etc. I woke up early while i wantd the others to wake up, but i waited for 2-3 hours for them to wake up :cry:. I wore sunglasses to hide my tears, i cried for 3-4 times daily. I walkd as far away as i could when we set up the tent ( i disguist the things tents) and sat alone for hours, thats some of the worst ive ever experienced :(.



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31 Jul 2009, 11:31 am

one of my few friends is from some farmland village, and he never Ever calls before a visit.

he sticks his dumb head IN my window, sticks his head INTO my room, and just hollers away "HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO? HELLOOOOOOO-OOOOOOOOOO!?"


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31 Jul 2009, 12:16 pm

ZEGH8578 wrote:
one of my few friends is from some farmland village, and he never Ever calls before a visit.

he sticks his dumb head IN my window, sticks his head INTO my room, and just hollers away "HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO? HELLOOOOOOO-OOOOOOOOOO!?"


You cannot be serious :lmao:

If someone did that to me, i would.......! !! !

It doenst matter, because my room is 6 1/4 meters above ground :P



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31 Jul 2009, 12:21 pm

When i was in the shower oncce, a friend of my 7 year old sister went into the bathroom and i shout: GET THE HELL OUT!! !

Bu tshe just looked at me like a fool and s*** into the toilet, it took 5 minutes for her to clean her damn rectm, and when i came out from the shower after hiding my toatlly private areas, i lifted her out and threw her full speed into bed while screaming in her ear, what a s***-kid :x



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31 Jul 2009, 3:07 pm

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
When i was in the shower oncce, a friend of my 7 year old sister went into the bathroom and i shout: GET THE HELL OUT!! !

Bu tshe just looked at me like a fool and s*** into the toilet, it took 5 minutes for her to clean her damn rectm, and when i came out from the shower after hiding my toatlly private areas, i lifted her out and threw her full speed into bed while screaming in her ear, what a s***-kid :x


Well that wasn't very reasonable, I bet her mum loves you :roll:
Is it me or do you hate every one and everything


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31 Jul 2009, 3:59 pm

bdhkhsfgk wrote:
ZEGH8578 wrote:
one of my few friends is from some farmland village, and he never Ever calls before a visit.

he sticks his dumb head IN my window, sticks his head INTO my room, and just hollers away "HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO? HELLOOOOOOO-OOOOOOOOOO!?"


You cannot be serious :lmao:

If someone did that to me, i would.......! !! !

It doenst matter, because my room is 6 1/4 meters above ground :P



:lmao: Not likely to happen in rural areas in the US.. there they're likely to meet the business end of a 12-gauge..



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01 Aug 2009, 1:24 am

MONKEY wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
When i was in the shower oncce, a friend of my 7 year old sister went into the bathroom and i shout: GET THE HELL OUT!! !

Bu tshe just looked at me like a fool and s*** into the toilet, it took 5 minutes for her to clean her damn rectm, and when i came out from the shower after hiding my toatlly private areas, i lifted her out and threw her full speed into bed while screaming in her ear, what a s***-kid :x


Well that wasn't very reasonable, I bet her mum loves you :roll:
Is it me or do you hate every one and everything


I don't know what her mom thinks of me, i don't know who her is, but i certainly do not hate eeveryithing, i just got so pissed that a 7-year old kid couldn't grasp orders and i had to wait to cover the area for around 10 minutes, i told her too look away, but she had to be a megafool, i rarely get angry, maybe 3-4 times a year, but i bet most guys would get pissed at dealing with such pitifulnes.



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01 Aug 2009, 5:27 pm

Thanks bdhkhsfgk and ZEGH8578 for your input!

wow I see I didnt get the worst case, it was even funny to read the responses of your own weird experiences of spontanious and or countryside people....
and that bathroom issue remind me of a childhood experience when our neighbour kid stepped into my bedroom in the morning when I slept, such rude girl!


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