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I'm not sure what your thread means. Are you saying you're being bullied at school and want to know if the rest of us were? If so, yes, I certainly was.

Please post again with more data so we know what you're asking/telling us.

Oh, and welcome, crazyguy, I don't think I welcomed you when you first posted.

Ahhh....yes...I remember those days when I was your age....It went on from when I was about 10 all the way up until graduating high school whereby I was 20...I failed fourth grade and took an extra year of grade 12 to upgrade....

I was bullied relentlessly for ten years.I don;t know how I managed to persevere THAT LONG...must be an aspie thing...perseverance and hard work.I kept saying...once I graduate it will be all over and I can build myself a new life..which is exactly I am doing.I am going on to my second year of college this year, and once I am done in June, I willl be more successul and making more money than those who tormented me.Success is the best revenge.All I can say, is stick your nose to the grindstone, focus on your school work and your future.I am studying to be a legal assistant, but if I wanted to, I could go further and go to law school if I wanted.....

As for short term advise....fight back when need be, ...but only do so if you feel your personal safety is being threatened.Rumours are the worst weapon in the NT mean girl arsenal and can only be countered by keeping a low profile and not associating with any of them....I learned that the hard way.AFter thinking they were my friends, they used what I said against me, twisted it, and turned it into a full blown personal attack.I was also blackmailed as such.Do not trust any girl who was once your enemy or associated with your enemies...she could be a spy on a mission out to destroy your reputation.If you are stood up or ignored by them after school hours...look out...they are a spy.I no longer confide in anyone unless they are a WPer or a long time Free Dominioner since they believe in a concept called honour and will not use deception, lying, and backstabbing to achieve their objectives.Not too many people have honourable intentions.The only way you will come out on top, is if you stick to doing what you do best and not stoop to their level and games.Preserve your honour and your dignity....High school does end...and beyond that, is a life way better than the one you have now.Focus on your future.

KinDLy cLariFY thingS, oLiver