Does anyone else experience this?

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It seems that sometimes people just single me out and despise me, and for no reason. They all of a sudden cop this "go away" attitude, and make it real obvious. I know I didn't hit on them. I know I didn't give them crap, EVER. I was always polite to them, yet they just up and decide to start treating me like **** when I try to come around and be nice. Sometimes, these people aren't even all that- one chick was downright homely. (DISCLAIMER: I know she's a human being. But for real, you'd think she'd be less judgmental and critical having lived the way she did.) And what gets me is, they only seem to be acting this way toward ME.

Also, while you're reading this, do people ever simply delete you from myspace/facebook multiple times? This one girl, she was always nice to me, but I disappeared off her list. I thought maybe it was a glitch and added her again. I stayed on for a month and fell off again. It hurts me.

Yes I know you might find this petty, but I can't help but feel like a reject sometimes, and if it's enough to make me contemplate suicide, it's enough for me to post it here. And I really want to improve, but this kind of thing always gets me.

I can only guess you are sending off vibes that you are unaware of. You could ask someone you trust to tell you.

I don't feel there's anybody I can trust that knows these people. I talked to a friend today about it, but from the outside looking in, she think it must be the other party, since I never did anything to them. Of course, there's your vibe suggestion, but even when I politely asked the other party what the problem was, I didn't get a response.

maybe they're jerks.

It happens to me sometimes, there are just certain types of people who just take an almost instant dislike to me for no justifiable reason.

The only thing you can do is try to ignore these idiots and move on because it won't change and they're not worth it anyway

Been there, done that.

Yes, that has happened to me! I especially hate when they act like I ought to know what I did wrong, but haven't the damned guts to tell me.I had a neighbor go around telling people something about me that made them shun me when I said good morning or something. Since I had only just moved in, and had only engaged in the most mundane and brief kind of chatter with a few neighbors, I knew that I couldn't possibly have done anything. The only thing that stopped me from getting depressed about it, was the knowledge that whatever she was saying would sooner or later be shown as a psychosis on her part, with no bearing in reality. After a year, I started to be on better footing with my neighbors. Now she has moved away, there are new people here, and I've to start all over again.

The thing is, I had to ask myself how important those people were to my survival. And proceed from there.

It's happened to me all my life. And being a girl, it was particularly frustrating that ALL the guys acted this way toward me, as if they hated me the minute they met me. For no discernable reason whatsoever. I never even got the 'fakefriend attempts'. People either loved me or hated me there was no in between.

I'm kind of used to it... and after all these years, finally starting to get the hang of spotting the fake friends.

Thank you for all your support. In an odd way, it's consoling to know others experienced the same thing (man human condition is weird that way.) Anyway, thank you all!

I experience the opposite. I was an ass in middle school and I started treating people ALOT better in high school and it turned out to be positive. People started treating me better too. The people you described do exist (I'm fortunate to get picked on very rarely), but just stay away from them and you should be fine. As long as she's not bullying you, stay away and you won't experience negativity.