Is my ex roommate being mean or an I just filthy?

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So I had an internship, just ended today actually and I was all excited to go drive home till I got to the apartment housing the company had me stay in. I was housed with a permanent employee much much older than I. She is over 55 at least while I am 21. But I thought it would be fine since I keep for myself and most stay in my room. I don't even eat that much. So there only one shower between th two of us. I most used the half bathroom down stairs to brush my teeth and to go to the bathroom despite the full bath being a few feet away from my room upstairs. So with the background done. I get to the apartment and there is a note on the fridge that says pretty much that she is sick of finding my hair in HER bathroom and I am no longer allowed to do and/or fix my hair in HER bathroom and that if I can't clean up after myself then I can find a new roommate. Mind you that she has lived there since January and I would have to be the one that would move.
So I work inthe same building as my roommate, the same floor and the same room with the sea of cubicles and I pass her all the time and she never said a word when we are both in the apartment in the same room she never complains. I would actually say "is everything alright?" an she says that everything is fine. I had been trying to get around to tell her I was leaving soon I just wasn't sure of the date yet and lately she is just nevr in the same room as I am I am. This is the second note she has ever given in. In the last one she said that housekeeping does not do dishes so I should leave all of my dishes in the sink since it attracts bugs. As I was reading the note I looked in the sink at what I had left and it was a knife and cup which prompted the note. Nothing was even on the knife I used it to cut a cucumber in a paper plate which I had thrown away. And hen she started on about cleaning the bathroom but I rooked the npteto heart not thinking any malice and I consciously started to look to see if I was leaving things messy. I had previously noticed that whenever I accidentallyeft like my shampoo or a towel on the towel rack in the bathroom I would come home to find it shoved in the closet in the hall.
So what the hell. Is she a B or am I just unaware of how crazy messy I am? I just left a note that my hair just falls out in the shower and that I try to pick out my hair but my eye sight is ultimatley poor. And that I was leaving that night. And I proceeded to pack and two hours later I was back home. So should have been more pissed off in the note or more apologtic? But either way I am still angry.
If this post looks weird or if there are weird words I am thing an iPod touch to post this and I am trying to do it fast and I can't really see most of what I had written.

seems like she is a bit of a b.

Clean-freak b.

My mother was like that. Just ONE sock on the floor and... "THIS HOUSE IS A DISASTER AREA!"

Pack up and leave her sitting there with her own dust, dishes, and hair.

Haha! Yeah I should have left hair in the fridge.

Leave some dishes in the fridge too, and maybe a sock. (Just kidding, though.)

Yeah, I was wondering why it began to sound weird towards the end. iTouch seems a bit hard to use for posting xD

Anyway.

So, she can't talk to you and leaves you notes instead so that she won't be there when you react to them. You ought to write her back <--- joke. Um, seriously, people who choose not to communicate face to face when they can are people who can't react well or think that they can just have their say and let the other person deal with it. Geez, what a hag. You are most definately not a filthy person.

Totally a not nice person and a not mature person (to leave notes and not talk).

Yeah and I thought I had social issues.