My new social worker is a problem

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I have always got bad social workers, but this has gone too far. The only social worker who was satifying was a MAN, not a woman. He never got PMS, so he didn't need to stay home, he didn't get pregnant, so he didn't have to wait one year. All of this i write has happened to my 27-year old make-up whore i had the last year, but this one is a 46-year old woman frm Ukraine, and i don't understand her f****** accent, it's horrible, i want someone to kill me everytime i hear it, it cuts through my inside, f*** it

She is a FORTY-SIX year old woman, and she asked me to be her friend...............BE HER FRIEND?! SHE IS FORTY-SIX not sixteen/seventeen, that was not pleasant, but creepy, and she keeps going in on me all the time, smiling at me, gives me zero space. She keeps calling me all the time, asking where i am, i want to follow you home. I am not a ret*d, i can walk home THANK YOU Nobody teacher has asked to follow me home, it's CREEPY, i think she means to either get me home to her, or drag me into the forest and rape me. Think about it, I WANT TO FOLLOW YOU HOME.............

Where I work at of our main location there's a lady that handles the 2nd floor of the building. White hair, cute body - flirty (around 60 i think). She hits on me when i come in, i flirt back - she seems appeased. Perhaps you should try to appease her.

Try discussing with her how this makes you feel.

It sounds to me like she's trying to reach out to you and you keep pushing her away because she doesn't fit an external ideal of what you'd like in a social worker.

I'm not sure how SW's are assigned in Norway but is there someone you talk with about requesting a male SW, if that's what will make you more comfortable?

Hi bdhkhsfgk (sorry for the instrusion): I did move this thread from School & College LIfe to the Haven since your thread fits more appropriately into the Haven format and topics - not really academic related. Maybe you'll get more responses too. Carry on.


Oh, about your thread: Yes, agreed! Why is your SW, 30 years your senior, hitting on you? Yikes. Maybe go therapist shopping - they're disposable you know.

I welcome locking of this thread if it's a must.

i'm sorry, i just found that hilarious.
it's just the way you said it.

but yeah, you definitely need to talk to her about that and make some things clear.

I think it will not be that easy, i remember her saying; "I hope we will get good friends". I wanted to shout; "I f****** hope not."

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I'd contact whatever organization it is she works at and report her behaviour.

Asking to follow you home is really really not professional, to say the least.