Does it ever end! Rant about father-little sister spat.

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There was a major argument last night between my sister and my dad about some sleepover she wanted to attend & she wants to move out. Apparently she wanted to have a sleepover with her "boyfriend" and my dad told her that it wasn't proper. She disagreed with him about the issue and she took some little thing he said out of context and told him she was going to be over to pick up her stuff today.

Today came and she never came for her stuff. She just called a little while ago, and told my sister she is coming back home, but she doesn't want to talk to my dad for a few days (apparently some kind of a cooling-off period). She is spitting mad right now, and may be back any second. She has a terrible attitude and is hard to be around for any of the family. I just feel anxious right now and am in a great deal of suspense.

She turned 18 in June and thinks she can do as she pleases because she is now a legal "adult". She doesn't have a job or an apartment or schooling beyond a GED.

Another thing is, while she was talking to my sister, she said she feels like killing (I don't know if literal or figurative) but I am terrified she will do something tonight and I feel inclined to lock my door.

I just moved here from Montana about a month ago to attend uni and now all of this is happening. I don't know what I did to deserve a family full of strife (mum and pa are divorced because mother had an internet romance and she ran off to Egypt).

Was I some kind of terrible axe murderer in a past life. All I want to do is get an education, find a good-paying job as a librarian, and be a general nerd and do likewise.

She doesn't even want to learn (I have to even help her add and subtract on basic homework when she was 17). She is going to a local tech school with my other sister soon and all she is concerned about is getting a pair of pink scrubs for the program she is enrolling in.

I just don't understand her. She takes everything out of context and blows up impulsively and lies all the time about everything.

Maybe I just don't understand NT teenage girls.

Well, it happened toninght. My sister moved out, and actually took most of her stuff.

My dad had a talk with her boyfriend this morning about how he didn't appreciate the sort of stuff he was doing, after my dad let him stay at our apt for a night (because the boyfriend had been kicked out after a spat with his own dad).

Her boyfriend called her to tell her he was breaking up, and she had a long talk with him. She yelled at my dad and got mad. my sister tried to talk with her about staying instead of leaving, but she rebuffed my sister.

I am not sure if my sister is homeless, in home/shelter or what she is doing. She

She started attending classes at a local college earlier this week and I am not sure what is next for her education.