Sick Of People- Just a rant
Why is it people always have some sort of motive for getting to know you or talk to you?
Why do people take the time to message you or talk to you, then neglect to bother to reply to the messages you take time writing and sending to you? I find it so ignorant and rude.
Why is it people cannot say what they mean? They ask how you are, then if you say anything other than 'I am ok' or 'I am fine', they get uncomfortable or accuse you of moaning.
They offer to help you, but behave taken aback if you accept their help.
Why the hell can't people say what they mean and mean what they say?
I am sick to death of it, and I am sick to death of wasting my time writing messages that go ignored or forgotten.
It is hard enough trying to keep some connection to humanity,and some faith they are not all hateful, without this crap. ![]()
SoulcakeDuck
Veteran
Joined: 3 Mar 2009
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,842
Location: a bubble called Cognitive Entropy
Down With People! We of the DWP support you! Actually there is only one member, but you can join, then I will quit.
I get just as far asking how the little hairless ground apes are today.
Life is confusing.
To say what you mean and mean what you say takes knowing what you mean by what you say, and I do not see a lot of that.
In my own life my most common comment is, Argue! It covers missed field goals and the death of a house plant.
I figure half my emails are lost in the mail, which was good, for the person is surely in jail for something horrible.
It is possible that people just do not know how to respond, and wishing to avoid saying something wrong, just freeze up. We call it, "Deer in the headlights."
Between the questions of should I move forward or back, they chose to stand in the path. Self motivation is not their best action.
In business mailings a response of 3% is high, strangers on the internet have all been told they are the only non stalker/axe murderer. When it turns out you are not, they are disapointed. They even left a window unlocked.
I am sure that a lot of them are just Bots, planted here to see who would answer such questions. It is a marketing survey run by the Political Parties.
As for the Meatbags, would you untie the Gordian Knot of an emotional overload? They are suddenly in over their heads, and face a lifetime of nightmares and uncertinty. They were having a problem with which socks go with what shirt.
In short, you are getting upset over nothing, no response, from empty skins.
Second, on this site, a reply may come six months later, after they though of their answer.
No response is a good thing, move on, keep looking for signs of life. It is a self sorting system.
PaganMom
Sea Gull
Joined: 4 Nov 2009
Age: 62
Gender: Female
Posts: 218
Location: Middle Of Nowhere, BFE, The Deep South
I may answer a message withing five minutes, or within an hour, or later that day, or several days or weeks or even months later, because it all depends on when I have time to get online. Also, sometimes I have signed on and somebody I know who is on my buddy list and SEES ME ON will IM me immediately and then get upset that I can't talk right then, I'm looking something up or doing something else online. I know a lot of people have more time to chat or are online for their jobs and can chat while they work, and some people don't do much else but get online because it's their favorite hobby, and I can SO GET that, but I can't. it's like the phone. People who have a cell or a cordless can walk around and do things while talking, but I have an old phone attached to the wall by a cord. So I don't have much time for that either, and people get so upset when you tell then you have to hang up and finish something.
PaganMom
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