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i have 4 friends or well i had 4 friends at one time. all of them are nts, two i know in real life and have my cell number, they never talk to me anymore. unless i text them they don't even notice me i swear.

my one friend was in the hospital so i can understand that but it's been months since then.

but i'm the aspie antisocial one who is scared of of phones, i shouldn't have to text two nts to get their attention, aren't they the suppose to be the ones that crave interaction.

as far as my online friends go. dice is hardly even around to talk to or online so he could basicly be dead to me. black my friend from wow, god only knows what his problem is, i quit wow 3 other times and no problems why does he so suddenly cut off communication. arrrgh. if this is from his problem of liking me i swear...

i don't even bother turning on or charging my phone, or logging into yahoo or msn, anymore i'm not wasting my time, and it hasn't just been a week it's been years for some of them.

i've been if nothing but loyal as a dog to them i need some compensation for all this. what are friends good for anyway.

maybe those people just don't text u because u don't turn on your phone.

or maybe they have just grown apart from you.

If they don't come reach out to you, don't give you the light of day - are they really your friends?

It sucks to have to be the one constantly doing it all the time, having to get the attention of NTs just to prove visible to them. And once you are visible, they just be nice.

Time to move on? Can't hurt doing that when you already have nothing to lose.

I've grown apart from many people that I used to call friends. I have an idea, of how you feel.

If you're perceived by them as TOO loyal, it may be suffocating to them. We have problems sometimes gauging whether or not we're clingy. This is why I sometimes disappear for up to weeks at a time, and then appear back randomly. First of all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and it makes people go "Hey- long time no see! High-five!" when I finally do show up.

I can only guess at the reasons, but I know exactly what you are talking about. One guy from all the way back in my childhood and who should be a close friend only wants to send me his weekly newsletter, and he has told me he cannot even write on a rainy day because he plays golf even in the rain. I could easily go on and make a long list here, but only the names and details would change.

I can understand how "clingy" could be troublesome, but I do not wish to be rid of my genuine loyalty and even an occasional sense of kinship in order to allegedly have friends.