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samtoo
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13 Apr 2010, 10:45 pm

I don't know what to say. When I lose a relationship, it feels like pure horror, and I now remember what it feels like during that extremely painful period I once had with that injustice that happened with the girl I nearly got with before my now former girlfriend I was with for 2 years.

I feel pure f****** horrible again and by God I need to vent and I need some calming down!

Can I phone her? What do I do?

In America it's probably nearly time for people going to sleep now.


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13 Apr 2010, 10:54 pm

English people tend to endure... endure... endure... endure... endure and that's all I've done recently. I miss the times when I would just blow up and feel rage build up inside me. I WANT THAT FEELING NOW!! !! I've just endured and endurered and bloody repressed and repressed...

I NEED a slight meltdown.


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13 Apr 2010, 10:54 pm

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13 Apr 2010, 10:56 pm

Please don't mock me. Anything like that can get right under my skin and damage my state.


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13 Apr 2010, 11:11 pm

I think it was a comment intended to express that things look different from different points of view. That perhaps her perception of events might not be the same as yours.



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14 Apr 2010, 6:43 am

I think after 2 years, it would be a bad idea to try and bring up the past with her, especially if it was painful. What do you plan to say anyway?

I know what it feels like to start ruminating on the past and get worked up over past injustices etc.., but you have to move on. Everyone else probably has.