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Right I'm going to go on and on and on about this girl I knew, she has FINALLY decided to remove me as a friend and block everything I get through to her, she still talks to my other friends but with me, she doesn't seem to like me... I've tried getting on with her but all that is doing is drifting apart. I actually used to have a crush on her, but I don't know now if I want to talk to her anymore? I'm so fed up of having to please people if they are going to throw it back in my face.

I don't understand why this has all of a sudden happened?

Superboyian, I think in the long run she's doing you a favour (whether she intends to or not). The best way to get over someone is not to have contact with them or constant 'updates' of their day to day lives.

It hurts now, but you will get over her a lot more quickly now you have nothing to do with her, and now that she's run out of things to 'delete' you from, she can't continue to hurt you (just don't add her back or anything).

She has never hurt me like that before until the last moment, everything just happened out of the blue and normally I'm not sensitive about losing people... But because me and her used to have so many chats before about so many things, things was all good and now I just can't believe it.

I can move away as far as I can from her, that's not a problem... But I just can't get her out of my head now, before it turns into pure anger in my head and then I get really depressed about it.

At least my girlfriend is cheering me up a little.

I remember going through the same thing, here on WP, three years ago. A member that I liked, cut me off. Too bad, it took me nearly three years, to get over it. Too bad, I let it alter my personality and reality. I'm back to my old Kinks and 60s loving self, and that's all that matters.

When you word that "she FINALLY decided to remove me as a friend" it sounds as though you have been in conflict for a while and she just reached a point where she couldn't stand it anymore. A relationship that creates constant conflict can't be good in the long run, and I do agree it was probably for the best. Its tough but moving on is for the best for both parties, at least from what I can assume.

Me and that girl isn't in a relationship, and yes, we have had a few conflicts in the past but it never was serious, it just suddenly happened...

I guess I have to move on, it is definitely so difficult to forget about it, but I just really miss talking to her about alot of good things, she has been acting up since she knows about me having autism.

My girlfriend is helping me get over it so that's helping me a little.

The character who cut it off with me, was acting up, after he found out, that I need to wear special underpants, for a problem that I have.

Ugh! It's awful- sounds like these people are afraid of disabilities. There are people like that, and it is irrational. Once they realize the extent of your impairment (like with CR's undergarment) they are so afraid, almost as if they will catch it. SuperBoyIan, I bet the very word "autism" set her off. You cant let yourself get too anxious or depressed over it because you cant change how other people react. I just hope you can start feeling better.

Agreed, stay strong SuperBoyIan.