I was personally attacked on another Website.

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CockneyRebel
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10 Apr 2006, 9:59 pm

And I'm scared out of my Mind. There's a Talk Show Host, who's doing a show on unusual fears. I've expressed a very real fear that I have for some Country and its Citizens. A Citizen of that Country gave me a personal attack. Now I'm afraid to check back at that particular Forum at that Website. The reason I'm not nameing names, or Countries is because I'm trying to remain annomynous. Should I check back to the Forum, or should I avoid it, like The Plague? Maybe I'll delete the Post, before I get into even more Hot Water.



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10 Apr 2006, 10:11 pm

They are just words on a screen, I myself have learned to take things less personal and
know I am right and the other person wrong.



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10 Apr 2006, 10:24 pm

sc wrote:
They are just words on a screen, I myself have learned to take things less personal and
know I am right and the other person wrong.


Thankyou for this statement. I can be a bit of a Hot Head sometimes, and I need to be reminded words are just that, words. :)



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10 Apr 2006, 10:27 pm

Do whatever you feel most comfortable doing and don't let it bother you. I have left a message board before (not autism related) because some people just feel like they have the right to tell you how to feel and that you have to conform to their opinions. If the group is very important to you and you don't want to get in an argument than you could delete the message. Or you might be surprised and see that people are supporting you - especially if you have been on the board for a long time and people know you there. It can be intimidating though.



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10 Apr 2006, 11:01 pm

You'll be all right I hope. Maybe after everything gets cooled down you'll be able to come back. I guess that's the only way you'll be able to come back is to let them forget about it.

Now with that being said it's midnight here so I'll go to sleep. Goodnight.


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11 Apr 2006, 6:27 am

I've picked up my nerve and made a more detailed about my particular Fear and how it came to be, and posted it on the Site. I'm not one to back down, and my second post was very Matter of Fact, and it was as Cool-Headed as I could possibly make it.



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11 Apr 2006, 7:01 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
I've picked up my nerve and made a more detailed about my particular Fear and how it came to be, and posted it on the Site. I'm not one to back down, and my second post was very Matter of Fact, and it was as Cool-Headed as I could possibly make it.


Don't let them tell you what to do. If there is only a small percentageof people from the board who are mean to you, just ignore those people. If the majority is mean, just remember that you are a Site Admin for the largest Asperger's website on the internet. If they knew about that, they'd probably be jealous. 8)



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11 Apr 2006, 9:22 pm

A couple Members of the Forums have actually given me support, so I feel better, now. :D



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11 Apr 2006, 9:56 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
A couple Members of the Forums have actually given me support, so I feel better, now. :D


I'm glad. Plus I'm glad that you didn't go by my advice. I'm not the one to back down any more than you aren't.


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