Mean Stepfather

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I don't understand why people are so abusive to each other. Today I unpacked my computer and I was tired and forgot that I was also supposed to setup the printer and take another box from out of the living room. Then my stepdad came in yelling at me and that ended with him saying "Go away. Get out of my face. One of these days I'm going to backhand you."

Why are people so arrogant and angry? I FORGOT to get the box with the printer in it. I'm not doing "Whatev er I want" like I "Usually do". I FORGOT.

My stepfather's attitude is becoming more like my father's. An arrogant degenerate idiot. Never went to college. Plays with stones all day because a stone mason's all the degenerate idiot has the brains to do. I'M the one who graduated high-school a year early. I'M the one who's worked all summer for the $1,000 to start my business. I'M the one who has over a hundred pages of political writings because I CARE ABOUT WHAT I DO. And I'M the one who puts up with this.

I was pushed to the point that I ran away
several times. I did not mean to upset mum,
but Jack upset me to this point.

I ran several times and staid at frend's places
doing electronic repairs in exchange for staying
at their places.

I was pushed to the point of violence so many times
that I thought I was going to harm Jack, I mean
pout him in hospital and get in trubble, so I
ran way from home and satidaed at a frends
place, until I cood bargain with mum to tell
Jack to stay away from me.

I had to lock Jack out of my life, block him
from my life, not just locks on my bedroom door,
but dark glasses on my face, not saying anything
when passing him in the house, not saying anyting
to him at all, if he say something to me, I leave
and go in room and shut the door and lock it,
put on my headphones and block him out.

Had he tried to bust in my door I would have
hit him over the head with a pipe the minute
he came through, I know I would have.

So I did prevention, it was far better to
prevent a bad situation, than to allow it
to happen.

I blocked him out of my life, I had weapons
in case I needed them, but I never showed
that I had them, but I kept them nearby
in case he tried to harm me.

I just blocked him, never talked to him,
never acknolliged his existeince, never
allowed him to enter my world,
I had my own living space, my own
system of doing things, my own world,
which I refused to ever allow to be
a part of his corrupt dirty world.

Totally
Blocked
Jack
Out.

Blocking him was the only way to keep
from harming him, and to keep him
from harming me.

When The Evil Jakaholla would pull his screaming
krap at me, it would only cause me to rage and
scream back at him, mostly swear words because
(so he claimed) he was a "christian" when he
clearly was not, he was pretending to be one
so he could get off tax free and look good on
the outside to the public, when he was nothing
but an evil controller who wasn't my father.

So your mom basically ended up marrying a carbon copy of your real dad? Geez.

In all actuality, Step-parents have precisely 0 right to order around a child that they are not biologically related to. This is how one of my cousins handles it. He takes absolutely ZERO disciplinary action towards his stepdaughter, leaving that entirely to her mother. It is VITAL that a stepparent NOT interfere in the disciplining of a child that is not theirs.

If you really want to zing stepdad bad, say "You're not my father, you can't tell me what to do."

And I think a little chat is in order with your mother and why she seems intent on picking a**holes.