A recap first. One day (while I was watching them) my sisters were being loud. I said be quiet 4-5 times then went in there yelled and yanked them YOU GO IN ONE ROOM YOU THE OTHER etc. They called mom upset. When mom got home we discussed it in a heated argument mom said I got in her face (I don't see it that way) and so she slapped me. I left the altercation and walked down the block. My Nanny passed by and I went to her house discussing the issues etc. She says the girls misbehave and that mom shouldn't have hit me (AKA her daughter!! !) Later on (after Nanny took me back home) a few days later, Mom talked to Nanny she said You raised her You made her who she is (Nanny referring to me).
Since then Nanny hasn't had ANY CONTACT with the family (outside of a phone call to me if I ask her to call or I ask her something or me running her mail to her (We get some of her mail in are box). The little sisters and nephew (8,10,&3 BTW) have all called her and Nanny doesn't pick up or respond to there calls. Grandparents day passed with calls from the girls but Nanny didn't return there calls. She refuses to talk to Mom (Which hurts my mother her mom not talking to her CRUSHES HER!)
All over the argument issue above and me telling Nanny what mom/sisters did. NOW Mom/Dad say I should mend fences and "Fix this" since it's my fault so I've called and left a message but wanted advice on this matter on what to say. It's practically October! Is there going to be no going to Nanny's for Halloween (as we annually do? Thanksgiving (Nanny coming over for turkey?) Or Christmas morning???) She has shut us out and yes it's MY FAULT but I'm kind of lost at what to say to fix this and wanted advice. Thank You WP.
27 Sep 2010, 6:49 pm
