17 Sep 2010, 9:09 pm
I sent a PM similar to this to a WP friend but wanted more insight. My older sister (the one who FOUND AS for me!) was saying "Why did you work ahead?" Don't you miss learning things." Aren't you just teaching yourself so why are you taking these classes? etc. I said I don't know I just do. (that's the most I could come up with for an answer) Also no one in my family understands why I chose my finances for a behavior project. I created 2 short term goals 1) No eating out in Sept. (didn't meet that goal) 2) Pay off NY bill (I should get Aid and have it payed mid. Oct. and 1 long term of pay off all debts by 25th Bday March 29th.
Everyone says bills/money/finances aren't something you talk about. I don't give the amount but I like saying I have a goal and a plan of when to reach it. I'm excited to be mostly debt free. So I don't get this NT thing of don't talk about finances what gives? Sure I only talk about the amounts to family/close friends not WP but I see no problem it's not like I'm giving out any personal passwords or credit card numbers. Sadly my family will never understand me. It's sad and pathetic. I dream/imagine of a nice guy with a nice family or a nice friend I can live with as a room mate or a guy that will be there for me. I can ramble about my interest Psychology or shopping/Christmas and he or a friend wouldn't care since they talk about theirs freely with me. Hey a girl can dream right? 
23 Sep 2010, 10:25 pm
