Mom hates me because I'm free spirited...:(

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I don't get it, I'm free spirited like Charlie Sheen in Two and a Half men(minus the drinking, girls and partying since I hate social activities), but my mom hates me. I have trouble doing the house chores, as I have a wild running imagination, and I would jump to the computer and draw what comes into my mind. I'm unhappy tha tI"m born like this and I want to in ways, kill myself because this free-spiritless is causing me trouble.

Why is life toying around with us like this?! I plant trees and do anything I can to live life without a single carbon-footprint!! Shouldn't nature reward me for preserving it? Rather than making me an artist and being hatred by my own mother?

You want a reward from nature? You got it, your healthy with the exception of being autistic which some people here see as agift in itself. You sure you did not do or say something to make your mother "hate" you?

might not be easy to do or possible for ya at the moment, but id say you need to get out of that household ASAP.

Being unable to do the necessary chores to provide a hygienic and harmonious environment for yourself isn't "freedom", it's "dependence".

I hope that things get better for you, and that your mum will try to understand you, in the future.

I'm not exactly one to talk because I myself haven't been doing much around the house, but helping out can be a rewarding experience. I hope to learn to work harder myself.

Does a chore have to be a "chore"? Can a chore be something you enjoy? If you feel safe in yourself, you might find that everything that is worth helping out with makes you feel good inside.

Doing these activities does NOT mean changing your actual personality, it just means feeling safe and secure, and doing more - that is all - as black and white as doing more in the day.

I hope you feel much better very soon. ^^ *Hug*

I was under that same impression about my mum, last year around this time. I felt that she hated me, because I'm a free-spirited person. Not in a Woodstock sort of a way, but in a British 60s sort of way. I felt that she couldn't stand that I found myself again, after 12 years. She couldn't stand the fact that this Mick Avory clone of a Kinks Fan suddenly walked back into her life - me. The daughter that she tried to feminize in the Summer of 1998. The nerd who wore those horn-rimmed glasses to try to prove her intelligence, just to look like Austin Powers. The troubled rebel who spiked her hair green, in order to look tough when she looked like Sid from Flushed Away in reality. Sweet, huggy Sid. :O) After all those disguises, she wasn't used to the real CockneyRebel, because she hasn't seen her since the Summer of 1997 or maybe just not ready.