b9 wrote:
i know a person who is on the verge of psychosis who desperately needed to know what my opinion of him was.
he sees "psychics" regularly and parts with money that he complains bitterly that he does not have, and on a few occasions he wanted to know about me.
the psychic accurately assessed him as a person who did not trust his own evaluations, and she also described accurately that he did not have a job and that he was always desperately wanting to know what is going on that people do not tell him.
he was convinced of her credibility, and when he told her about me, she said to him that i saw him as a beast of burden, and that i would use him in anyway that i could.
she told him that i was not concerned about his welfare in any way, and i use him as a cheap tool to perform tasks that i could not be bothered to attend to.
obviously he told her about the odd jobs that i give him so he can earn a few dollars, and his essential attitude was what she picked up on and played on to seduce him to think she was correct in her "ethereal" appraisal of the matter.
he was incensed at me and i told him that if he pays dollars that he can not afford to hear the words of a trickster who plays upon his mood as he proffers his description of what he wants to know more about, then all he was hearing was an amplification of what he feared.
people who resort to clairvoyants are seriously deficient in their situational awareness.
For better or worse, that's what psychics do. They read people's body language and various signals given off and then amplify what they find and feed it back.
I have gone to a psychic a couple of times with the full knowledge that this was what she was actually doing. I was fully aware that she had no psychic abilities at all (I know those don't exist). I was actually paying her to be an inexpensive psychotherapist. I was having some problems and needed to make some decisions. I paid her to "psychically" figure out what I should do. What I was actually paying her for (and I knew this) was to figure out what subconscious decision I had already made and bring it up to the surface so I could stop fretting and act on it.
This is a good service and worth the money
if somebody knows that is exactly what they are paying for. If they don't realize that is what they are paying for it can be downright dangerous, as in the case of your friend who was accurately assessed by the psychic but did not realize that she was simply telling him what was going on in his own mind. Psychotherapists do that too but they charge a lot more in exchange for being more ethical. And for going to school for a decade and hopefully learning enough about mental problems not to make them worse for a fast buck.