Worried about my sister's boyfriend

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I posted in the members only forum about this already but it's just really freaking me out and I would like advice or confirmation or disagreement regarding the legitimacy of my concerns as soon as possible so that I can decide how to act/not act on them.

Basically the gist of my situation is this: I'm nervous about my best friend/sister's new boyfriend but I don't want to put her on the defensive when telling her my concerns. But I'm just very worried about her. ):

you forgot to include why you're concerned .
does your other thread say why? is there a link to it?

otherwise kinda hard to give any kind of helpful feedback on this

I don't know what this is about and I don't know your age, and I really don't know your sisters age. But from what I can figure out you're about 17-24 and she's around the same age, and younger than you. Just me guessing here.

If her boyfriend is a thug who shoots people deals drugs and cheats on her/smacks her around, then that's serious.
But if he's just up to some minor things (I have no examples), something that doesn't really harm anyone directly then I say stay out of it and let life teach her a lesson.

But I don't know what this is about nor how old you two are so she might just get pissed off if you go lecturing her about her life choices. If she's old enough (23-24 and over) then let her make her own f**k ups and learn from them.
If she's a stupid little kid hanging with the wrong crowd then tell her what the f**k is up and how you feel about it.

People MUST make their own mistakes in life in order to grow, as long as they are not life threatening.

That's all I got, short and sweet.

I posted to you other post about this.

If you feel this strongly about your concerns, then you need to investigate them.