I hate being a loser right now.

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13 Dec 2010, 9:48 pm

I am working on changing that in college. However, it makes me feel bad to be an average looking, average intellect guy with a bad job who lives at home.



Anyone else feel like a loser. I need meds probably. I am receiving some soon.



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13 Dec 2010, 9:58 pm

That's still pretty average. How many losers are there in your game? :)



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13 Dec 2010, 10:24 pm

Bluefins wrote:
That's still pretty average. How many losers are there in your game? :)


average can be somewhat depressing............................ :roll: :roll: :roll:



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13 Dec 2010, 10:36 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:
I am working on changing that in college. However, it makes me feel bad to be an average looking, average intellect guy with a bad job who lives at home. Anyone else feel like a loser. I need meds probably. I am receiving some soon.


when one is down at rock bottom, everything looks like up to him. there are lots of people who would gladly trade places with you, to have an average intellect and average looks [which beats below-average intellect/looks] and with a bad job, which is better than no job at all. and living at home is better than being homeless. the fact that you can even think about college is a sign that you are above average in intellect. it could always be much much much worse.



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13 Dec 2010, 11:10 pm

auntblabby wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
I am working on changing that in college. However, it makes me feel bad to be an average looking, average intellect guy with a bad job who lives at home. Anyone else feel like a loser. I need meds probably. I am receiving some soon.


when one is down at rock bottom, everything looks like up to him. there are lots of people who would gladly trade places with you, to have an average intellect and average looks [which beats below-average intellect/looks] and with a bad job, which is better than no job at all. and living at home is better than being homeless. the fact that you can even think about college is a sign that you are above average in intellect. it could always be much much much worse.


I agree...things can always be worse. A good cure for that kind of depression is to write down 3 things each day that you are thankful for. This harvard study has shown that it actually works for treating mild to moderate depression.


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13 Dec 2010, 11:17 pm

auntblabby wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
I am working on changing that in college. However, it makes me feel bad to be an average looking, average intellect guy with a bad job who lives at home. Anyone else feel like a loser. I need meds probably. I am receiving some soon.


when one is down at rock bottom, everything looks like up to him. there are lots of people who would gladly trade places with you, to have an average intellect and average looks [which beats below-average intellect/looks] and with a bad job, which is better than no job at all. and living at home is better than being homeless. the fact that you can even think about college is a sign that you are above average in intellect. it could always be much much much worse.


This is indeed true.

I need college to be an office manager someday. That's what I want to do with my life. Be a massive jacked guy(not there yet), college degree, with my 5k-10k jeep that I take to the mountians, mediocre job, nice condo, dogs, mediocre looking wife who is really sweet personaility wise, maybe one kid at age 34ish.........save some money for retirement.





Ya, that's it. I don't think it's TOO much to ask for.



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14 Dec 2010, 12:06 am

ApsieGuy wrote:
Ya, that's it. I don't think it's TOO much to ask for.


no it is not too much to ask for. you are already halfway there.



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16 Dec 2010, 7:52 am

auntblabby wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
Ya, that's it. I don't think it's TOO much to ask for.


no it is not too much to ask for. you are already halfway there.


I am halfway there.