Mods. I don't understand.

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LiendaBalla
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07 Jan 2011, 3:09 pm

Could you post the rules for the haven for me, please?

I want to understand why it's acceptable for a person to enter someone's rant thread and invalidate their feelings and tell the upset person in their face that
1: they aren't feeling anything but "whiney drama queen syndrom"
2: their perception of what they recieved is all fake poo poo.
3: they are a b***h for feeling hurt when people come into their thread to 'fix' the poster.

http://eqi.org/invalid.htm
Here's one link, if you don't understand what 'invalidation' I'm refering to.

Also, I want to undstand how in any forums it's ok to..

...trash talk a group, so long as it isn't color or gender.
...bash other beliefs.
(Sometims this web sight's loading takes a long time to)
Thank you.



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07 Jan 2011, 3:39 pm

The rules for the haven are the same as for the rest of WP. However, bullying or any sort of belittling is more unacceptable here than anywhere else on WP. If this sort of problem arises it should be reported to the moderators so action can be taken. Please be aware that moderators read only a tiny fraction of posts and we rely on people reporting problems to us either by the moderator attention thread in WP discussion or by PM.


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07 Jan 2011, 3:51 pm

Here are the site rules for WP.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt12459.html


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07 Jan 2011, 6:09 pm

*thanks you*