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07 Jan 2011, 4:01 am

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07 Jan 2011, 8:25 am

I wanted to be invisible when I was younger because interaction with people was so confusing and stressful. I am still invisible on WP from time to time, particularly when I post a picture of myself. :?



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07 Jan 2011, 9:05 am

Aimless, I was going to comment on the last picture you posted, but refrained for fear of creepiness. You look really great :oops:

Sufi, did you edit your post?

I guess we all suffer from feeling invisible at times. I actually cast a spell to make me invisible once, but it worked to well, and then I didn't like it. So I made myself more visible.

I guess we want positive attention and not negative, and that's really hard for us.

Anyway, Sufi I saw your post, I hope you feel better.


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07 Jan 2011, 9:15 am

Being invisible can sometimes be a blessing.



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07 Jan 2011, 12:18 pm

Thanks Moog :wink:

I'm kind of a neurotic weirdo, I know. The fragile ego is back in it's cage now.



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07 Jan 2011, 12:56 pm

Aimless wrote:
Thanks Moog :wink:

I'm kind of a neurotic weirdo, I know. The fragile ego is back in it's cage now.


Aren't we all? :lol:


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07 Jan 2011, 9:33 pm

It's almost like that I'm invisible too... in a way it's good, but definately not if I'm in that stupid mood of wanting attention and failing to receive it.



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08 Jan 2011, 5:09 am

Some acknowledgment.
No one takes my ideas or feelings seriously or even just acknowledged. I am dismissed like I haven't a single worthwhile thought or contribution. No one has ever said, ' that is a good idea' or 'can i help you'. They just take over and I am brushed aside and ecpected to just go along with everything. Everyone else has the answers and I am not worthy of being heard.


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11 Jan 2011, 4:24 am

Hi Sufi. Is it a matter of how you are bringing your ideas to other people? Maybe it's a problem of communication?


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11 Jan 2011, 11:15 am

i feel invisible too. i think it happens from time to time to all of us. it is more or less a variant of *normal* .



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11 Jan 2011, 11:23 am

Oscar Wilde is right. It's a constant thing. In fact, I think it happens to everyone, including NTs, but that we notice it and it hurts us.



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12 Jan 2011, 5:25 am

Moog, I don't think it is a communication problem other than I am not forceful enough, not the squeaky wheel so to speak.


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If you have three options you have a choice.
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