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Frieslander
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10 Mar 2011, 1:02 pm

horribly rude responses. Emlion will be sorely missed.



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10 Mar 2011, 1:14 pm

She left?



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10 Mar 2011, 1:17 pm

What??? What happened?

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10 Mar 2011, 1:24 pm

I agree completely, Frieslander.



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10 Mar 2011, 1:25 pm

Yep, 2 posters (maybe more?) have harrased her in the thread here in the haven. I can agree with her decision and she surely would be missed.



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10 Mar 2011, 1:28 pm

I agree and will miss her too. But then maybe this is what she needs. I mean a lot of us have told her she should stay etc, but on second thoughts, maybe she just needs a break, spend some time with Stefan, get away from any negativity that some people throw about on here. Hopefully she will be back soon and feeling a lot better and a lot stronger because of it.

Either way, I like her and wish her the best. This place will definitely be missing a great poster



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10 Mar 2011, 1:41 pm

MXH wrote:
Yep, 2 posters (maybe more?) have harrased her in the thread here in the haven. I can agree with her decision and she surely would be missed.


I know that there was one who apologized and really felt awful about it. The other one could take a lesson from that and I hope, at the very LEAST, he's PM'd her to discuss his tasteless comment with her and apologize.



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10 Mar 2011, 1:42 pm

wefunction wrote:
MXH wrote:
Yep, 2 posters (maybe more?) have harrased her in the thread here in the haven. I can agree with her decision and she surely would be missed.


I know that there was one who apologized and really felt awful about it. The other one could take a lesson from that and I hope, at the very LEAST, he's PM'd her to discuss his tasteless comment with her and apologize.

There was another before she talked about. I dont want to keep spreading info but its all written out for you in 3 threads.



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10 Mar 2011, 1:44 pm

At least the earlier ones bothered to apologise when they read the thread...



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10 Mar 2011, 2:21 pm

Give the poor woman time. She may well come back.



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10 Mar 2011, 2:28 pm

I'll probably be hated for this, but oh well, I have nothing to lose.

I am honestly sick of this favouritism for emilon, please stop. No one here is any more special than anyone else, we should treat each other as equals. I hope at least someone will understand what I mean.



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10 Mar 2011, 2:36 pm

We like her. She's a nice person who's gone through some serious sh*t and still managed to survive as a nice person. The same cannot be said for a lot of people, myself included. I don't expect the same kind of support that emlion gets because I will b*tch someone out if they piss me off. We support her and don't want people arbitrarily hurting her. There's no reason to be intimidated by that. It doesn't mean people cannot care about you or anyone else because they care about her. She's earned every bit of the affection that she received from this forum. I don't like the philosophy that no one can be treated with kindness and love because it's better for everyone to equally receive nothing.



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10 Mar 2011, 2:50 pm

Simonono wrote:
I'll probably be hated for this, but oh well, I have nothing to lose.

I am honestly sick of this favouritism for emilon, please stop. No one here is any more special than anyone else, we should treat each other as equals. I hope at least someone will understand what I mean.

Whilst I do agree that there is some favoritism to her by some, the large majority that have seen beyond simply being a she have noticed that this person whilst fighting her own troubles is there for all of us.



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10 Mar 2011, 2:52 pm

No one would care if it was anyone else. I'm not going to cry about it. A lot of people here are nice, decent people.



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10 Mar 2011, 2:54 pm

Look, people are gonna like who they like. What are we supposed to do? Pretend we don't like someone just because they're popular already? She can't help it if she's well liked, and I'm not gonna pretend not to like people I like



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10 Mar 2011, 2:54 pm

i just returned quickly to answer some PMs.

can i just say; i didn't ASK for this thread to be created, but even here people can't help but attack me.
i haven't done anything to hurt either of you. so why must you say bad things about me?
if you can't say anything nice, why come out of your way to attack me.

thanks a lot.