I never got diagnosed, but the two psychologists I've seen agreed with me that I was definitely an Aspie. At first, I was hell bent on getting an official diagnosis and paper or certificate to prove it, because I wanted closure, I guess. I got so depressed that there was "something clinically wrong with me" and felt sorry for myself. But as time passed, I accepted it and I'm very proud of who I am.
Knowing has made my life so much better. I know now why everything is the way it is, why I have trouble socializing, why I collected tea bags when I was a kid, why loud noises startle me, why I get anxiety with changes in routine and environment, why I stutter, why I don't look people in the eye, why social interactions are awkward, and why my life is the way it is.
Knowing and accepting I have AS has allowed me to feel more confident with myself, and not feel like such an outcast or weirdo. WP has been some of the best therapy I've ever had, because there are others who have the same problems I have when I thought I was the only one. I don't know why, but that has helped the most. I guess it's nice to know you're not alone.
But I'll keep saying this: Be proud to be an Aspie and be proud of who you are!
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