My family is falling Together and It can't

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My grand mother died. We were not close and I really just see it as her getting the peace she needed. That being said..

I have two aunts and 4 cousins. Both aunts have been out of my life for a good 99% only saw them during Xmas / thanks givings. When my father got sick (kidney failing) they pushed us out of everything familynwise because "he was to sick to help" we watched as my grandfather died slowly and them picking all the (wrong) options. About 3 years ago one of the aunts had a change of heart and slowly joined our family. I am even going on a week trip to FL (first trip alone with out any family) The other aunt and her husband(#2) kept us away from my grandma and brain washed her into her own little slave.

Today both aunts are getting back together and are fighting my mom because my mom won't "get over it" but my mom is close to caving in. I on the other hand will not forget or forgive. The mean aunt has done nothing for us but pushed us away and I see this as her trying to keep us from getting a lawyer from and fighting the will. I also know for amfact the mean aunt coned my grandma out of half her house when she was getting sick and might have even more then half in the past few weeks! I am going insane because I can not let this happen.

Hugs. :O)

She's in a better place and away from the chaos in the family.

I hope that things settle down for all of you, soon.