My stepfamily sucks.

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I'm venting. I'll list the reasons why they suck.

My stepsister. She only loves her father for his wallet. She pretends to love him but she really doesn't. She pretends that she's innocent little angel when she was most likely drunker than a skunk and f*****g every night since summer started. She's not old enough to do either. And her boyfriend is. She's your typical low-iq teen. Oh, don't raise awareness to the fact that she's this little b***h because she'll run to daddy with crocodile tears. Funny thing is, he knows she does this crap.

My stepbrother. First off, he tries too hard to act like an adult and wgen anyone else acts like a "child" (in his eyes of course), he's superior to you. Even myself, one who is in fact older than him. Yet he still s**ts his pants, still plays videogames all hours of the day, and still holds onto potty humour. As soon as he turns nineteen, (the drinking age here) what does he do? Drinks. Even though my mom told him not in the house. But while we're on what he consumes, lemme tell you about his amazing eating habits or lack thereof. He's six foot two and only 140 pounds. He is at least 20 pounds underweight. All he ever consumes is energy drinks, fast food and alcohol. His words are getting more slurred, he's becoming very depressed and he says there's nothing wrong. When confronted about it (actually, when confronted about anything that requires more than a yes or a no) all you'll ever get is, "I dunno". This is an adult child who has no self-esteem, no sense of hygiene, no depth, no drive to do anything other than half-ass everything and has no inclination to change. And my stepfather doesn't see a problem or doesn't even try to help if he does. He can use cancer as an excuse all he wants, but he didn't try to help even before he had it. Which brings us to;

My stepfather. He parents by "do as I say not as I do", he is always negative, always depressing to talk to and always seems as though he really hates the marriage my mother and he have. He pretends for the public that everything is okay at our household, when really, he brings nothing but negativity to the atmosphere. Even before he was diagnosed with cancer. He doesn't believe in autism by the way. So he treats me like I'm really just neurotypical. Like my difficulties are just me being difficult. Somehow because I'm smart, I ought to be able to "figure it all out". He can be really great when he wants to, but he treats us all like s**t and calls it parenting. He treats my mother like s**t and calls it a man's duty. I used to care for him, I even cried when I found out he had cancer, but my tears have long since dried for him and my heart is slowly closing shut to him. I'm so sick and tired of him that I'm almost hoping the cancer takes him. Almost hoping! It makes me feel like I myself am a sick-minded psychopath.

Overall, they are the most two-faced, dysfunctional, bunch of ass holes who ever walked this Earth, and I'm seriously regretting ever running into them.

I apologize for my language, I've been bottling this up a very long time. I usually try to stay positive no matter what, but that family sucks the very life out of me and I feel like the light is slowly draining away.

Thank you to anyone who reads this all the way through.

For what it's worth, your step family sounds a lot like my own family, just with who acts like what switched around a little bit. It sucks. It can be really frustrating to have to be around people who do nothing but put you in a really f*cking sh*tty mood.

But at least you won't have to live with them forever, right?

I suppose so. I'm not moving out for a long time though. Saving for things.