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Listen to this song while reading this, it'll help you know where I'm coming from.

My family ignores me, always sound boarding me and dumping ALL their emotion from the day they had on me. If I ever try to talk to them, they twist my words around in some dumbass way to make it seem like I'm pathetic. "I'm AS! They ONLY one out of 11 kids!" I am the 11th and if you can guess it, all my siblings dumped all their crap until they eventually moved out, now it's only mom, dad, older brother. Mom put me in charge of every chore in the house, I have so much responsibility that if something, anything is wrong, literally it is because of a small thing that I did or didn't do. Mom thinks that that's supposed to humble me or some s**t. Everyone else in the house suffers because of the small thing I did or didn't do, all the fingers, all the blame are fixed on me 24/7. I am so stressed now that I have developed insomnia, it is currently 5:03 am. My family is SO ignorant, anything I say is wrong to them, not a second thought with them, God forbid they think rationally! The "dumping" from the years shows, the look on my face is a blank/angry expression, I cannot feel emotion, I am trying to figure out how to NOT repress. I have severe chronic depression, that does not help in the least. Mom is constantly forcing rules upon me, the only thing in the world I can turn to, to help make all this stress bearable is electronics but thanks to mom if I don't finish all my jobs then I am grounded from electronics or if I don't wake up at 7:30, now I sit and bathe in stress, repression, opposition, depression, criticism, etc. I watch all my siblings and since I have a brain, I have removed myself from their unhealthy social habits and ignorance. Mom constantly tells me not to blame others because it might be me, I think about that with this topic and try to find the part where it's "my fault", tell you what I have a tough time finding where in fact it might be my fault. This all has been a constant corrupting cycle since my childhood, in what f****d up world would it actually be my fault for all this?? Everything I enjoy, my siblings hate or my parents forbid it. I cannot believe my parents have not been smart enough to figure out that they are WAY to damn controlling because my brothers moved out, got a job, a car, a wife when they were 16 yrs old. I am 17, trying to finish my education, I am actually going to a technical school. I have no friends, no one to talk to. I'm not the sort of person to turn to crime or anything like that, because I have logic. If I knew how to cry, I would be. Anywhere I look, anywhere I go, I hit brick walls, no room move. My parents have had 11 kids? Hmm... shows how much they f*****g care to listen.

I'm sorry for all of this, it's obvious I don't talk a lot or vent. I don't know where to start or stop.
I am lost in life, when I look at what I have and where it might lead me, I... I just don't know.
Waiting for the end to come wishing I had strength to stand, this is not what I had planned, it's out my control.

Sorry to hear that you're going through such a rough time. When you go to technical school, are you planning on moving out and living on-campus? If so, it sounds like you have about a year or so of your current situation, and then will have a chance to get out of it.

When I was younger and living at home, I was forced to grow up pretty early and assume a lot of responsibilities, too, because my parents had problems with addictions and I had to be the adult in the household. It was hard and made me angry at the time (and, honestly, sometimes I am still angry about it when I look back), but in some ways it did teach me a lot and make me stronger. I hope you can get through this difficult time in your life and come out stronger on the other side later, too! Hang in there.

I honestly don't know what you are going through, but I'm sorry.
Hope it get's better? You made it all this way, and that shows that you are tough, so cornets for that.