I've sent a prayer asking God to give you both a little extra support right now. I'm not one to pray for specific results on something like this, but whatever happens, hopefully it will be positive.
Ps - just a little perspective: I'd rather have your problem than any of the others I've seen people suffer through this week. Funeral Thursday night for a man leaving behind a young family, tax return yesterday for a family that is losing everything financially - which is also tearing the marriage part; and so on. I know your mom's pain is real, and your concern for her and the situation is sincere, but there is always an "at least it wasn't ..." It did make me smile to see your request, just to remember that in some lives something of that size might still be as bad as it gets, and life does not always test us all around. I guess thank YOU for a little perspective, too
I think I needed it after all I've seen this week. And God works in mysterious ways ...
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).