How to handle this..

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Tonight someone in my class is having her 22nd. The problem is I'm not invited, everyone else in the class however got invited to her party. My class is fairly small and close- knit, we have ten people in our class so I feel offended that I wasn't. I found this out via facebook and other people talking about the party. So far I haven't asked why I wasn't invited or taken any action, I'm clueless. Honestly I feel very hurt by this, how do I go about this?

Ignore. Don't say happy birthday to her, greet her, give her a present for her bday or something. When it is YOUR birthday you''ll bet you know who'snt invited to your party

Plus, aren't aspies suppose to hate parties? personally if I am not invited to a party of someone I am not close friends with, I couldn't care less (and even if I was invited I wouldn't come anyway)

I love parties and that was why I was so bummed about it

Oh, I get it. Inviting everyone except for you is very mean, and hurtful. Don't talk to her again, I guess. But first you need to make sure she did it on purpose because if she forgot to invite you or if you weren't there when she handed the invites to everyone it's not her fault tho I doubt it you're only 10 people so chances are slim for that.

Would it be a good idea to approach her about it? The thing is that I graduate in month and I've got one more week of class left. She is generally a nice person but I'm unclear what her stance is towards me being aspie and all. Right now I'm starting to think we weren't as close as I thought damn