In the end it was all my fault....

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I have no idea why.....he told me he didn't have to tell me. The worst thing someone can do is not give you a detailed explanation as to why they don't want you in their life.

Some times you just cant seem to ever reach an understanding no matter how hard you try. I told him he was too vague and I just don't get it.

Where did it leave me...in the hospital and half dead.

I tried so hard....i really did.

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Oh no, Mego I am so sorry. Sometimes these things don't work out, and if he won't even tell you why it's your fault then highly doubt it is ALL your fault.

But life will go on. You will find someone better. I know it doesn't look like it now, but it will. Never give up on life because one person gives up on you - once they walk out on you they should no longer have any say or meaning in your life. Save your emotions for those who have earned it.

If he is that unwilling to communicate, his relationships are doomed. I'm guessing it was mostly his fault.

I dated a guy like that. He needed someone who could prop up his self-esteem, and that wasn't me.

He's a worthless, doomed dick. Anyone who says it's all your fault doesn't have half the social ability of a seriously drunk Aspie.

Best of luck getting up and not seeking out relationships with similar f**ktards in the future. Better patterns are out there, man.

The weird thing about him was that he never said things to me directly. He would just run and tell people via facebook or even through status updates. He would say things sarcastically ...once it was something like "yep, come on over" I believed him so when he didnt respond and went to bed ...I was annoyed and told him that if he was gonna ignore me then he should have just ignored me from the beginning....he got angry and cursed at me....later went to facebook and asked this girl..."Do you hate me too?"

While this may be hard, it is better not to waste time or effort on him as you didn't need someone who would make you unhappy like he has. It's not worth it. Live your life in high spirits and not to feel degraded.

Perhaps it was ?

No one can trully read minds, my former wife always said things like " If you don't know I'm not gonna tell you" or "you know"

statements like that are the reason I'm not with her any longer

And I'm so much better without ! !!

I'm sorry that he had to put you through all that. It's not your fault, it's his.

He had some other reasons of his own that were all HIS fault/problem, but didn't want to admit that, so he made it sound like it was all your doing to "save face" or some garbage like that.

It sounds like he was kind of jerky anyway--maybe he was trying to push you away (again, for reasons of his own that probably had nothing to do with you) and finally resorted to just being hurtful.

I know this hurts, and I'm sorry, but I don't think he really loved you. I'm not sure if he's even capable of loving.

Take care, hope you feel better.

A lot of the time we never find out. Most of us have been in that situation and it sucks.

I'm really sorry and wish you the strength you need to get through it.

Look at it this way:

If he says "it's my fault", it may or may not be his fault. (Because that's what he's supposed to say either way.)

If he says nothing, it's his fault. (Because he wasn't willing to communicate.)

So actually, he made it clearer for you.