I am freaking out about my 23 yearold son, he has lived with his dad for the last ten years, is hundreds of miles away, apparently has been having some pretty serious issues, has a stepmother that my ex bought online from a 3rd world country, she brought her two kids, she apparently has been waiting for a chance to tell my ex to make our son get out, she got her chance recently because he is having a breakdown, maybe substance abuse issues. He has been in a treatment facility for ten days, he tells me they told him he has no substance abuse issues, but should attend outpatient treatment, that he has no psychiatric issues, but should stay on the medication they have been giving him and find a psychiatrist when he gets out, so I am not real sure what he is saying is the truth, or at least all the truth. He is still saying bizarre things, I am so afraid he will get out, act up, dad will throw him out etc
Initiallly his dad was just going to throw him out, even called the cops, then realized he is sick, and that he needs to be treated like a sick person, but the wife apparently has been pressuring him to throw him out, claiming "afraid for her kids".
My ex has been telling him he can't pay for college because he has to support "all these other people" (wife and her two kids), admits to ignoring our son, the stepmom apparently has no attachment for my son even though they have lived under the same roof for years. Now my ex is back to the "I will throw him out because she is afraid for her kids".
I finally told him, "she is pretty sure her concern for her two kids outweighs your concern for your sick son, send him here to me rather than put him on the street or in a halfway house, he probably senses his stepmom doesn't want him around, and he obviously is having issues with having so little interaction with you>
I just hate it, I have no resources, no car, no money, no insurance, live in a piddly s**t town with few doctors, hate that internet whore wife, could just slap my ex for putting her ahead of our son and being so damned cheap (he makes a lot of money and could very well afford college tuition, and would get a huge tax break if he did)j, hate the fact he is so stupid he got conned by that woman into marrying her and bringing her here, she was making $3 a day where she lived (a lie probably), was online with other men even after they were married. I want my sick son, who has been exhibiting signs of schizophrenia to be in a safe loving environment, and a greedy manipulative whore and stupid ex husband have actually made matter worse.
Please don't comment on my language or attitude for my ex's wife, I know of what I speak and it is not about jealousy, just about the fact my husband should care about his one and only child, and not put the bs needs or fears of some piece of garbage who married the highest bidder above our sick son. Just so angry and frightened and helpless being so far away, wonder if he makes the wife work to contribute, but think she spends her day with her friends from her country, in fact thanksgiving for my son was sitting at a table, her and her friends speaking in their language, ignoring him, which by any account is rude. Stupid ex, stupid whore wife.
If I had people under my roof, telling me to send my sick son hundreds of miles away to someone with few resources, I show them the damned door and wish my ex wasn't such a dumbass.
11 Dec 2011, 6:31 pm
