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Kavindra
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Joined: 17 Nov 2011
Age: 46
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Location: NY middle of no where

12 Dec 2011, 4:47 pm

My best friend and really only friend who lives out of state hates my husband. I made the mistake of saying he was abusive a ways back and he has since got better at controlling his temper but yet she still hates him. My friend also told me she never pegged me for an Aspie as I tried to tell her that I believe I'am.
My mom has so many mental issues and yet seems to be under the impression nothing is wrong with her even though my siblings and I have seen it for years. She is so paranoid over everything and seems to think she is better then her kids at everything. She would always tell me I could never do this or that job because I'm horrible at math and how she is so great at it. My mom tells us things like the police are after my dad or my dad must have killed this person or that person. My dad and mom have not been together since I was 16 and here it is I'm 32 and she still thinks my dad is out to get her mind you he lives in another state. I care about her but it's gets very frustrating when it's the same old stuff I hear from her all the time. She use to tell my siblings and I that my dad was going to burn our house down back when I was younger. If she wasn't in such poor health I would want to do something for her but with Lupus and the Meningitis she is in ruff shape. I also get to hear about all her alien stories and I'm not saying that they definitely don't exist just the stories are very bizarre and hearing 15 minute stories on the phone all about it is just irritating.
Then there is my older brother who believes the magical car fairies are going to pay his car insurance, bills, and people he owes. So he goes parties, drives drunk, and blows all his money well living with my sister who has been more then generous to him letting him stay there for cheap with his three cats. I think I just want to scream and then go back to pretending everything in life is ok well trying to avoid my family as much as possible.


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MarcusTulliusCicero
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13 Dec 2011, 1:50 pm

I feel sorry for you.