he makes me want to kill myself.

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Its been a long time since ive been this down, and or even thinking about suicide.
I met this really lovely guy... (he has Aspergers) I have AS too.... even though im undiagnosed...
Now idk what i did wrong to begin with. so every time i try and talk to him about it he blows up at me.
He keeps accusing me of s**t, twisting what i say.
Ive become really scared of him, I got off last night wanting to kill myself...
Tonight IDK im too scared to ever talk to him. he accused me of harassing him.. i dont see how really when im the scared and frightend one...

I just want him to leave me alone...
Hes made so much hard work unravel in 2 days...

Im so scared.... I didnt think he was like this...

Then he says he wanted to be friends.. thats all i wanted, im so f*g f****d up in the head atm...

Im just gunna leave him alone n hope he leaves me alone...

I forgot there were people like him out there... but why do i always seam to find them???


Im just a normal aspie girl... im scared... but what can i do....

Really, it sounds like it's more trouble than it's worth, I don't think it's healthy for either of you, I would say you're on the right step when you say you're going to leave him alone. I know it's painful to let go and move on but sometimes it's the only way forward.

Yeah i know..

Wolfheart im starting to wonder, are u getting sick of seeing my posts?
I should just have taken your advice from the very start and ran with it!!

but thank you...

1. No one can make you want to do anything or even feel anything without your cooperation.

2. Without an official diagnosis by a trained and licensed mental-health professional, your "Aspieness" is a matter of conjecture only.

3. This "lovely guy" may be trying to deal with his own inner problems, and may find that dealing with your problems as well is too much of a burden to bear.

4. "Twisting words" is easy when the person speaking either does not mean what they say, or does not say what they mean. Also, speaking metaphorically to a literal-minded person will only lead to misunderstandings.

5. Since he has played the Harassment card, you are better off without him. If you want him to leave you alone, then leave him alone too - just cut off all contact and move on with your life.

6. You are better off without him.

7. You deserve a better relationship.

I was diagnosed unofficially by 2 aspies - next month i go for official testing.


I havent dumped any issues on him, ive been trying to figure out why he keeps going off at me....




Relationship? there never was one...

No, I think you're someone who falls hard and fast in love when they fall. I know what it's like to be in a unhealthy relationship and feeling like no matter what you do, you can't fix it. You seem like a lovely girl and I'm sure you'll meet the right person at some point.

Thanks. im starting to feel like Dory from finding Nemo "just keep swimming, Just keep swimming"
I suppose its all i can really do.

But again thank you for all your advice Wolfheart.

No problem It's funny you brought that movie up because I recently bought a clown fish and a blue tang, I think I'm going to name the blue tang Dory now.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmyUkm2qlhA[/youtube]

Thank you Wolfheart thank you. thats prolly the best thing to log on to 1st thing in the morning and see this!!
We were discussing fish at home last night n where to push a fish tank... We cant have fish cause of the cat... Dory is an aaaawesomely sweeeet name for a fish ^^ or squishi!!
My friend Just got a fish and she called one Quasi modo!! so dory sounds awesome (my friend wants to work for Disnesy Pixar one day ^^
Thank you im smiling now!! !

If it's causing you that much pain you need to step away from it for a while.

Yeah im doing that - but thanks.

I put the parts above that should be enough to tell you he's definitely the wrong guy for you... or anyone. What a jerk.

You deserve better. Dont give up

Terida:

The title of this thread pretty much answers your questions about whether you should contact him again. There are plenty of actual decent people about to be friends with so you should take full advantage of this

over the years ive had plenty of people made me want to kill myself over other and different issues...
but some of these people, i am now friends with...

Everyone deserves a second chance I wouldnt have any friends if this wasnt true...

Fair enough. Just make sure you protect yourself emotionally to some degree :)

Thank you, bucephalus