Feeling sad and inadequate

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aspie_giraffe
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18 Feb 2012, 3:56 am

I'm in second year of my bachelor degree and I'm worrying about med school, getting grades good enough for med, whether I'll ever get married and have lots of dogs like I want. My dog didn't want cuddles today, admittedly it's summer and today was really hot, so I feel unloved. People get annoyed when I talk. I feel lonely. And I miss my opa. If I don't get into med my life is over. Sorry for rambling



hale_bopp
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18 Feb 2012, 7:21 am

I'm sorry you're unhappy.

I hope your study goes like you want it to.



lenbogan
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19 Feb 2012, 1:07 am

I struggled with my degree as well. Your school likely has tutors you can seek out for help. Don't be afraid, as difficult as it is to ask for help.

As for the rest... "Be true to thyself" (corny as it is) and be content with your own company. It will make a world of difference to be contented and different rather than anxious and different.

We've all been there. The sheer size of this site is proof enough of that. Stick with it and keep working hard and in the end you'll appreciate what you've become all that much more.

And seven sentences is hardly a ramble. :D



Paulie_C
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19 Feb 2012, 3:53 am

If it makes you feel any better then this is the same way a lot of people feel, especially when they are undertaking education at that level, the stress involved can make you think like that, if it didn't then I would be more concerned :)