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Xerillius
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24 Feb 2012, 4:36 am

I'm feeling rather worthless right now. I'm expected to see things from everyone else's point of view but when I ask the same in return, I'm immediately in the wrong. I started a new job 3 days ago, so I've been super stressed out and can't handle changes as well as I normally can.. I had been wanting to go to office depot for 2 days so I could get something for work but hadn't had the time. This morning I had made it clear that since we had the time to go, that we were going to go to office depot so I could get it. When I was halfway out the door my mother in law says she's going with and bringing her dogs so we can't go to office depot, and I have a minor fit, which I thought I handled pretty well, which involved me saying whatever and pulling the door closed harder than intended. Somehow I got my mother in law upset and suddenly I'm the one to blame, when I made my intentions clear and my plans were hijacked. So here I am, stressed the hell out, and having everyone pissed at me for having my own feelings and needs..

Meh.. Just ranting anyway. High probability I will be cutting tonight.. Who knows..


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24 Feb 2012, 7:57 am

Is your mother-in-law providing you with transportation. If she is, what she wants goes. In that case, you need your own wheels, so save up for a good used car. New ones, and the insurance on new cars, are too expensive. In the mean time, save errands for weekends, since you can't rely on your mother-in-law to use good sense or common courtesy, during the week.

I love dogs and cats, but your errand was more important than treating the dogs to a ride. Your mother-in-law puts her and the dog's frivolous desire for a ride in the car above your real needs. She seems to have little respect for you, and no sense at all. You and your spouse need to save up for your own place, so you can both lead your own lives.

Remember, get your own car, and get your own place,--ASAP.


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