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Joe90
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21 Mar 2012, 1:00 pm

I read so many different causes of Autism, and I know that none of them have anything to do with me. My mum never smoked or drank or took any drugs when she was pregnant, and she was in her mid-20s when she fell pregnant (which is just average to have children), and there was no complications with my birth, and I was a healthy baby and reached all the milestones at the average stages. Also Autism isn't strongly genetic in my family. And yet I was still born unlucky.
Even if I have ancestors who had/have Autism, why has it got passed down to just me, and nobody else in my family (and my family is pretty big)?

Was anybody else born Aspie without no cause of it (except for bad luck)?


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21 Mar 2012, 5:48 pm

Sometimes great things are found by bad luck. Difference is if you see it as a mistake.

Not everything does not have a treatment, away of coping. Even a human that look's like it copes & has no problems, hides it's pain, as part of the defence mechanism. Difference is are you looking through it with the correct glasses.

Until you become one with yourself, you will keep thinking you were born unlucky.

Does a blind person call himself/herself unlucky or does he/she try to cope with her/his blindness, by heightening his other skills.

Just like you can have many girls with never having boys. Etc reversed.

Your forgetting “environmental impacts”, from what I read of what you put before. About peer pressure & also been in essex. Etc. You say it does not bother you, yet you show it does.

Are you an introvert joe if you are:-

I would recommend the book "The Introvert Advantage How To Thrive In An Extrovert Word".


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