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SanityTheorist
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06 Jun 2012, 8:56 am

They were the only ones that I seemed to share much in common with and they just up and left after grduating high school. I lost all my effort with that since I will likely never see the two again, not even have conversations with them. I hate feeling like all the effort was for nothing.

Even worse I had a crush on one of them...Noah. I have had a crush on him for 4 months and him leaving made me feel abandoned and even sent me into the stages of loss.

How do you guys handle this? Writing lyrics and artwork usually helps but it only distracts me it seems.

A song that seems to really help is Sick of Man by Cold.


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06 Jun 2012, 10:46 am

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06 Jun 2012, 4:18 pm

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06 Jun 2012, 5:29 pm

ha ha sweet pea hugz! Cant you still call him and use internet to keep in contact. just cause he is moving dont meen he is gone forever.



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06 Jun 2012, 7:39 pm

Thank you for your sympathies, but I need advice. It pain me to think I may never end up seeing them again.


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07 Jun 2012, 6:09 pm

Well man my advice would be to stay in place since you would have a better chance of things happing where you are at. I would if it were me wait a lil bit and see how things go and if i still wanted to move a few months after the fact then i would try to move but i wouldnt let my emotions dictate my actions...... I think someone needs a sweet pea hug.