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17 Jun 2012, 8:44 pm

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Me and my dad just got yelled at by my mom like she has never yelled before. Usually she focuses on one specific grievance, this time it was dozens, from up to 20 years ago... And she didn't entirely make since. didn't seem like mom. Not insane, but not balanced ether, kind of like withdrawal. Though from what I haven't a clue, she's on a bunch of stuff for MS and other assorted conditions. But I didn't ask, might antagonize her fear of being committed (how that came about I haven't a clue). That or it was one of the worst mealtdowns (there is a distinct possibility that she may be an aspie) I have ever seen from her. She was even threatening to leave, something I never thought I would here from her.
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17 Jun 2012, 8:57 pm

That sounds extremely stressful :( I am sorry to hear that happened. I hope for the best for you


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17 Jun 2012, 10:35 pm

Titangeek wrote:
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Me and my dad just got yelled at by my mom like she has never yelled before. Usually she focuses on one specific grievance, this time it was dozens, from up to 20 years ago... And she didn't entirely make since. didn't seem like mom. Not insane, but not balanced ether, kind of like withdrawal. Though from what I haven't a clue, she's on a bunch of stuff for MS and other assorted conditions. But I didn't ask, might antagonize her fear of being committed (how that came about I haven't a clue). That or it was one of the worst mealtdowns (there is a distinct possibility that she may be an aspie) I have ever seen from her. She was even threatening to leave, something I never thought I would here from her.
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Though this may not be normal for her it is for a lot of women. People who don't express their anger often enough will eventually get to this point. Don't take it personal when emotions are calmer ask whats on her mind and you may get a real answer till then don't add fuel to the fire but doing things that will cause her concern or anger. Hope this helps!



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17 Jun 2012, 10:39 pm

She expresser her anger quite often, this time was just more... volcanic then I have encountered.


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17 Jun 2012, 10:45 pm

Let cooler head prevail and then ask her whats bugging her.



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17 Jun 2012, 10:46 pm

That's what I intend to do.


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17 Jun 2012, 11:25 pm

MS really sucks, and the medicines are really powerful so I wouldn't be surprised if that has a lot to do with it. I hope you are both okay.