Explaining inexperience

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Say you find someone who you’re compatible with. You get together, go out, the inevitable comes – whether it’s kissing or further – how do you explain your lack of experience? Or maybe you don't, and just let nature take it's course...Does either solution work, or is it a case of what happens just happens?

Sorry, I guess this is more suitable to the Love and Dating section...so if anyone wants to move it, feel free.

When the time comes you'll instinctively know.

OP, since you're female, it shouldn't be that big a deal. The man might actually think it's cool you're still inexperienced and he gets to be the one to show you.

Redrobin, you're gay. So, it's kind of the same for you with an experienced gay man.

For inexperienced heterosexuals with AS (or much less experience than the average hetero man), many NT women are not as enthusiastic. They wonder, "what the hell is wrong with this guy that he's so far behind most men his age? I don't feel comfortable with this. He's a weirdo"