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01 Jul 2012, 5:22 pm

I keep on harting people and feeling sressed and feeling depressed but I don't know why. Please help



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01 Jul 2012, 5:50 pm

First of all, has anyone really told you that you are hurting them?
Also are we talking physically hurting people such as punching and kicking or causing them to be emotionally hurt by swearing/blackmail/threats?


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01 Jul 2012, 5:55 pm

PastFixations wrote:
First of all, has anyone really told you that you are hurting them?
Also are we talking physical such as punching and kicking or causing them emotional pain by swearing/blackmail/threats?

Physical and emotional pain I cause



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01 Jul 2012, 6:16 pm

When you say physical, is it just punching and kicking or is it violence as in using weapons?
When you say emotional, are we talking swearing and making threats or is it more blackmail and bribery?
Also who is mainly on the recieving end of the physical and emotional attacks you make? Parents? Siblings (if any)? Relatives (Grandparents, Aunts and Uncles etc.)? Friends? Best Friend? Carer/Guardian? Neighbours?


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01 Jul 2012, 6:21 pm

PastFixations wrote:
When you say physical, is it just punching and kicking or is it violence as in using weapons?
When you say emotional, are we talking swearing and making threats or is it more blackmail and bribery?
Also who is mainly on the recieving end of the physical and emotional attacks you make? Parents? Siblings (if any)? Relatives (Grandparents, Aunts and Uncles etc.)? Friends? Best Friend? Carer/Guardian? Neighbours?

Punching kicking dieting swearing

And it's at carers



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01 Jul 2012, 6:40 pm

mmcool wrote:
Punching kicking dieting swearing

And it's at carers

Hmmm... well do you think you act this way towards your carers as you feel like you don't have any blood relatives around you thus triggering a reaction to lash out at those closest to you because your missing your true family?


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01 Jul 2012, 6:45 pm

PastFixations wrote:
mmcool wrote:
Punching kicking dieting swearing

And it's at carers

Hmmm... well do you think you act this way towards your carers as you feel like you don't have any blood relatives around you thus triggering a reaction to lash out at those closest to you because your missing your true family?

I do have some family left
But my mum and dad are dead
I moved away from my brother and sister
And now live in a children's home



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01 Jul 2012, 7:25 pm

Now I truly know why you are acting the way you do with your carers...
You miss your parents and not being as close to your siblings. I'm right, aren't I?
I don't expect anyone at 15 that has no parents and seperated from his siblings to be coping with that at all, even an NT would react to that.
Personally I can't help you come to terms with what happened. I don't know if you are in contact with your brother and sister but it's still possible to talk to them, maybe this will help you in your state.


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01 Jul 2012, 7:33 pm

I genuinely feel sorry for what you have to endure and at a very young age growing into adult life.


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01 Jul 2012, 7:57 pm

I asked to move away from my brother and sister