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I hate harting other people usely teachers and staff st the children's home

I don't why I suddenly lash out it happens alot

Hurting other people can make you feel pretty bad, I know.

But, mmcool, it seems to me that as you are consistently repentant on this topic - I've seen a lot of your posts - you're not a bad person at all, so you must be hurting pretty bad to be hurting other people.

I've read your posts in which you mention a little of your background, and this must be an incredibly hard time for you.

The only thing I can say that might help - I definitely have no experience of physically lashing out, all of my emotional/physical assaults have been on myself - is that people care about you. That if you work hard on making yourself feel better, and I know that is not easy at all, that eventually it will get better. The happier you are with yourself, the easier it is to be nicer to other people.

I hope things get easier for you. You're one of those people who, I read your posts and then worry about you. You're young, and life has been hard for you. I know how that feels, and it's s**t. :/ If you need a person to talk to via pm or anything, my inbox is always free.

I lashed out alot at my parents & others on forums in the past. perhaps your lashing out because of frustration; maybe you have problems with the environment or doing things they are expecting or wanting you to do & lashing out is kind of like going into a mini meltdown. I sometimes lashed out as a defense mechanism because I've been bullied & criticized a lot or I interpret things the wrong way because of my AS issues.

Sweet Pea hugs