Hand Talkers Look Odd to Me

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09 Aug 2012, 8:13 pm

I get this very strange feeling when someone who gestures alot with their hands is talking to me. Its almost as if they are some kind of tentacled alien being, or a tyrannosaurus rex with tiny little arms with a human head talking to me. Does anyone else feel like this? Any idea if there is a name for this feeling? I've searched the web for this concept, but have not come across anything.



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09 Aug 2012, 10:03 pm

Hmm I feel bad now, I am an aspie who talks with my hands cause I feel better expressing things that way. But i never really thought how other people may feel abut me using my hands to express things.



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10 Aug 2012, 8:09 am

Please don't feel bad. It is perfectly normal to talk with your hands. My experience with this is not the norm.

Upon thinking about how I experience hand talkers, it could just be sensory processing issues between my eyes and ears.



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10 Aug 2012, 8:54 am

I move my hands around lots when i talk. it is the only way to stop flapping with anxiety.

I quite like the idea of being a trex. i is so much better then a seagull..growl.



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11 Aug 2012, 4:46 am

I find hand talking to be somewhat bizarre. I've never used gestures when speaking to other people but I do notice that the vast majority of NT's do. I always get the impression that they're speaking in code.



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11 Aug 2012, 4:56 am

Don't say tentacle in front of Myka.



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11 Aug 2012, 5:49 am

Yeah I do notice that... whatever you do though don't respond with bad hand gestures. :lol:


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12 Aug 2012, 5:37 am

Teredia wrote:
Hmm I feel bad now, I am an aspie who talks with my hands cause I feel better expressing things that way. But i never really thought how other people may feel abut me using my hands to express things.


Same for me.


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