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27 May 2008, 11:55 pm
arrrrrrgggg!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! ! 
( now I feel better now I have gotten that off my chest, sorry if it scared anyone I just dislike my father alot.)
28 May 2008, 12:05 pm
aspergian_mutant wrote:
Vague rants. None of my rants apply to anyone here.
Person #2,
You don't know what you are talking about. Really you don't. I am one of the most honest people you will ever know and it's not my problem that you can't handle the truth and maybe in your own world since you are used to everyone else playing games and lying through their teeth that you thought you could be clever and put me in that category as well.
First of all, I have had difficulties with trust and you really did nothing but validate that. I have been trying over and over to open up to people and then you had to piss on it. Sometimes I can be overly forgiving. Yeah well I'm quite tired of it. I don't want to speak to you again. If I am forced to, don't worry. It won't be much of anything. Small snippy anwers for now on maybe a hint of the same non-chalant attitude strangers get as well.
You went from someone I didn't mind sharing with to a stranger.
Person #2,
You don't know what you are talking about. Really you don't. I am one of the most honest people you will ever know and it's not my problem that you can't handle the truth and maybe in your own world since you are used to everyone else playing games and lying through their teeth that you thought you could be clever and put me in that category as well.
First of all, I have had difficulties with trust and you really did nothing but validate that. I have been trying over and over to open up to people and then you had to piss on it. Sometimes I can be overly forgiving. Yeah well I'm quite tired of it. I don't want to speak to you again. If I am forced to, don't worry. It won't be much of anything. Small snippy anwers for now on maybe a hint of the same non-chalant attitude strangers get as well.
You went from someone I didn't mind sharing with to a stranger.
Dear psycho who edited his or her message to echo my own message and sent me a pm acting as if you knew me.
Sorry but I don't know you. I'm not your ex wife
(aspergian mutant sent me this pm):
aspergian_mutant wrote:
Yes, But did you ever listen, or give answers when needed,
take into account their own life experiences and fears and trust issues and anxiety's and feelings,
take into account their own social and personality issues and needs, people are human just like you,
People are not mind readers, especially people with aspergers, and your not the only one that exists in this cold reality.
Your so quick to pre-judge others and ignore your own faults that lead up to the issues you complain about.
Then close the doors of reasoning just because you do not want to be reasoned with fearful of finding out you may have made a
mistake or may be wrong, you do not want to work on any issues even if they may benefit not only others but your self as
well, once your mind is set the rest of the world is wrong and no one ever changes in your eyes, you do not accept your own
faults even when you say you do, you do not want to forgive or care, your reality is the only reality and point of view that
matters, you do not like to work on relationships or issues, once a mistake has been made you are done with them, even if
your the one who made the errors in judgement in the first place, you harbor the resentments and let them build up giving you
reason and issue instead of working out the issues for the good of all, and it always takes two to tango, because of this attitude
you will never be able to make a relationship last or have any lasting true friendships, you will never learn to trust, everyone is human and makes errors, but everyone changes over time, you close the doors to that yet want it open for your self for others
to see, to make and keep true friends one must at times get to know them and accept them even through the hard times,
learning boundaries is a part of that and then learning to push past that with understanding and trust and faith and forgiveness, everyone makes mistakes and bad judgements and says and does things they later regret, especially when having to deal with issues they never had to deal with before in their lives, people get hurt and hurt others without meaning too at times, especially if they get lost in their own turmoil and confusion of life, but what hurts most in my book, is that of never knowing or understanding why someone has choosing to close doors without a true explanation of what they are accusing the other of
offinding, leaving no way to work on mending those bonds and bridges, especially if they have to deal with that other person for the rest of their lives, sometimes closure is needed and a good thing for both party's, working out the hurts and pains instead of holding in resentments and grudges and bitterness, in hurts not only your self in the end but all involved, especially children.
Good Luck in your lonely silent world.
take into account their own life experiences and fears and trust issues and anxiety's and feelings,
take into account their own social and personality issues and needs, people are human just like you,
People are not mind readers, especially people with aspergers, and your not the only one that exists in this cold reality.
Your so quick to pre-judge others and ignore your own faults that lead up to the issues you complain about.
Then close the doors of reasoning just because you do not want to be reasoned with fearful of finding out you may have made a
mistake or may be wrong, you do not want to work on any issues even if they may benefit not only others but your self as
well, once your mind is set the rest of the world is wrong and no one ever changes in your eyes, you do not accept your own
faults even when you say you do, you do not want to forgive or care, your reality is the only reality and point of view that
matters, you do not like to work on relationships or issues, once a mistake has been made you are done with them, even if
your the one who made the errors in judgement in the first place, you harbor the resentments and let them build up giving you
reason and issue instead of working out the issues for the good of all, and it always takes two to tango, because of this attitude
you will never be able to make a relationship last or have any lasting true friendships, you will never learn to trust, everyone is human and makes errors, but everyone changes over time, you close the doors to that yet want it open for your self for others
to see, to make and keep true friends one must at times get to know them and accept them even through the hard times,
learning boundaries is a part of that and then learning to push past that with understanding and trust and faith and forgiveness, everyone makes mistakes and bad judgements and says and does things they later regret, especially when having to deal with issues they never had to deal with before in their lives, people get hurt and hurt others without meaning too at times, especially if they get lost in their own turmoil and confusion of life, but what hurts most in my book, is that of never knowing or understanding why someone has choosing to close doors without a true explanation of what they are accusing the other of
offinding, leaving no way to work on mending those bonds and bridges, especially if they have to deal with that other person for the rest of their lives, sometimes closure is needed and a good thing for both party's, working out the hurts and pains instead of holding in resentments and grudges and bitterness, in hurts not only your self in the end but all involved, especially children.
Good Luck in your lonely silent world.
Sorry but who are you??
I hope you don't run around on these boards thinking all women could possibly be your ex and send a lame private message acting as if you know their life story and come across as a preacher in the process.
28 May 2008, 2:08 pm
28 May 2008, 5:18 pm
Fine I'll role play your ex. 
Well MAYBE if you took me out for Valentine's Day the way I wanted and gave me boxes of chocolates that were all the same instead of the assortment pack where the coconut flavored crap chocolate made me feel like vomiting it would all be okay but NO you just had to play video games and give me crappy candy on Valentine's Day.
How dare you!
What about the time when you got your income tax refund and you couldn't be bothered to spend it on my hobbies but instead you bought a new computer? What about MY needs?? What about how I wanted a manicure or a trip to the salon but you went and spent it on another computer?? How many do you need? Oh and your Lord of the Rings collection.
Pick up your dirty laundry thrown on the floor too will ya?
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28 May 2008, 5:45 pm
28 May 2008, 5:58 pm
catspurr wrote:
Fine I'll role play your ex.
Well MAYBE if you took me out for Valentine's Day the way I wanted and gave me boxes of chocolates that were all the same instead of the assortment pack where the coconut flavored crap chocolate made me feel like vomiting it would all be okay but NO you just had to play video games and give me crappy candy on Valentine's Day.
How dare you!
What about the time when you got your income tax refund and you couldn't be bothered to spend it on my hobbies but instead you bought a new computer? What about MY needs?? What about how I wanted a manicure or a trip to the salon but you went and spent it on another computer?? How many do you need? Oh and your Lord of the Rings collection.
Pick up your dirty laundry thrown on the floor too will ya?
Well MAYBE if you took me out for Valentine's Day the way I wanted and gave me boxes of chocolates that were all the same instead of the assortment pack where the coconut flavored crap chocolate made me feel like vomiting it would all be okay but NO you just had to play video games and give me crappy candy on Valentine's Day.
How dare you!
What about the time when you got your income tax refund and you couldn't be bothered to spend it on my hobbies but instead you bought a new computer? What about MY needs?? What about how I wanted a manicure or a trip to the salon but you went and spent it on another computer?? How many do you need? Oh and your Lord of the Rings collection.
Pick up your dirty laundry thrown on the floor too will ya?
Like Phucking Wow, LoL, that was actually some of her complaints!! hahahaha.
Now your making me laugh my ass off, that was funny as hell, now I know for sure your nada her.
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Fine, hey you, get your ass out of your garden and help me with the children, what do you think I am your own personal baby sitter?! we have 6 of them don't you know and only one of them is mine!
and besides, all the children want their own personal computers, that way your not always complaining at them for bogarting the computer time or them you!.
and what about my lord of the rings collection! all the children loves them!
and the dark chocolates you enjoy so much are hard to find, let alone finding darks that are assorted,
why cant you be happy with all the flowers and expresso's I bring home for you every day since we met and for the last 3 years!
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tax returns on your hobbies?! you already spend all of yours on it, I want to put mine on the children and the bills where it should go!, and computers needs maintenance and upgrades don't ya know, especialy with toddlers stuffing things into the CD roms or using them as cup holders!
and what about my video games? if you spent more time with me then I wouldnt feel the need to play them, besides the children love them! its like a family time!.
BTW you was horrable in the bed, always was, in many ways I dreaded it...
And what about the laundry? if you got on it more often instead of letting the children trash it before its put away then there wouldnt be a problem, what am I supposed to do everything for you? fine you watch the children and Ill take care of it, hey wait, where ya going?! back to your coffee shop again? what about the laundry and the children? fine..
And YES I know I gave you reasons to doubt me,
but Vague you was no angel your self,
You was down right mean and confusing and inconsiderate at times.
So come on, why the silent treatment? don't want to be reasoned with?
Hey, don't you turn your back on me while I am talking to you.
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LoL, ok, thanks for being sarcastic and cute both at once,
your funny, thanks, I needed the levity.
your OK, peace out.
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