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22 Sep 2012, 10:46 am

Grrrrrrrrrr
I am not sure how to say how I am feeling. I feel like I don't know how to be a human being. It's so hard to have a life. Seems like I just can't be like everyone else. People say I need to widen my circle of friends but they don't realise how hard it is for me to make friends or how stressful it is for me to be in social situations. I can't do everything. I've been focussing very hard on uni so that I at least have some success but everyone wants me to be more social. So hard to please them. At least I'm happy when I'm studying.
Just wanted to hear from people who get it.



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22 Sep 2012, 10:47 am

Very sorry to hear that, my friend. I have those same problems to a degree..... so I can see where you are getting at.


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22 Sep 2012, 11:30 am

Thanks for replying. Im feeling so depressed right now:(. I guess ill b happy again if i just get into my study again and not thinknabout my socialretardedness.



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22 Sep 2012, 1:18 pm

Try to figure out your priorities and focus on them. If your friends hassle you, explain to them that you're just not in the mood for whatever they are planning. They should respect your wishes and if you wish you could suggest something more your speed. Try to meet them half way.



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22 Sep 2012, 5:18 pm

Do what makes you happy, life is too short to keep bashing our heads against the wall. (figuratively, of course).



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22 Sep 2012, 6:54 pm

"It's so hard to have a life?"

That's what they say is it? Well f**k them. You're focusing on your studies, it's something you want, so it's something you're doing. The hell with pleasing them. Your way of living is yours, not theirs, unless you give it to them.